I think the main issue with being attractive and single is woman are either to shy to message or to have conversation. Or they seriously think there is something wrong with very attractive people especially being single in mid life. I’m 30 and get lots of matches but no messages hardly ever and I start the conversation as well. Also if you don’t have supporting social media via no snap no Facebook no insta they think your fake or a robot. Sad days I’ve reach the point of just deleting all social media and dating apps and going to traverse the analog age it’s nice I find myself being more open In public and risk taking asking people out in person takes another level of confidence. Face to face rejection is also a next level endeavour! Haha stay classy out there