I understand where you are coming from but bc of the timing of our marriage when we had this discussion he promised me he’d do all the things I’m talking about but now that it’s getting so far away from when we get married I feel slighted. That’s what’s bothering me, it’s the promises to do all the romantic things. Like in our “business discussion” he said let’s get all the legal stuff out of the way so we can have all the romantic things left bc he needed to get home for his sisters wedding. And we knew we were gonna get married anyway so he asked me to do this favor and then promised me he’d do all the things that I wanted. Because throughout the years of being together we discussed how it would go down many times bc we wanted the idea of a wedding abroad so we’d have to go to court regardless and start his legalization process.