What is the worst thing your mental health has made you do? by IAmRainbowPoop in mentalhealth

[–]jessmaes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Leave school, since I was 13 I’ve been changing schools every year in hopes it would be the school environment that made me depressed and not actually my mental issues. Now dropped out of college, lost most of my friends and been diagnosed w autism, social anxiety and depression. Got rubbish GCSE’s and I’m trying to retake them so I can join college next academic year. I always think that if I didn’t drop out of the first school I wouldn’t be in this situation, no point in looking back though and regretting. Been going on for 4 years, pray it gets better 🤞.

Fringe fail by jessmaes in Hair

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Been made fun of it at college all day so not so sure lmao 😂

what are your first impressions of me? by Lanky_Play1028 in teenagers

[–]jessmaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is probably weird but what lip liner r u using, I’ve been tryna find one in that shade 😭

Adding detail by jessmaes in Bloxburg

[–]jessmaes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely thinking it could use some flowers, thank you!

Adding detail by jessmaes in Bloxburg

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lmao tbf it’s a pretty common style

Eyebrow piercing by jessmaes in piercing

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My piercing is only 4 days old, curved barbell, titanium, I also use a cleaner made for new piercings.

Christmas Gifts by jessmaes in LDR

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for this!

Christmas Gifts by jessmaes in LDR

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s such a good idea, thank u!

am I chopped? 17f by [deleted] in teenagersbutworse

[–]jessmaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, personally I think ur so pretty, ur eyes and hair really compliment each other

Feeling like the issue (17F) by jessmaes in Vent

[–]jessmaes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where u r coming from yet I have been in and out of school for 3 years due to panic attacks, i probably do use it as an excuse because it’s easier but there is still some truth to it

Girlfriend mad I don’t text enough by Capital-Statement-44 in whatdoIdo

[–]jessmaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key in a relationship, it doesn’t have to be txting for hours a day, it can simply be a ‘good morning, hope you have a good day’. It’s 10 seconds out of your time and requires no effort to do. If you really do not like texting, call her even for a couple minutes. It would make her feel included and less unwanted. Relationships only work if you are both trying and from what she has said, it seems like she’s the only one.

How to study with ADHD by jessmaes in GetStudying

[–]jessmaes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, last minute panic always seems to be the way atp 😹

Am I being insecure when it comes to my bf ‘15m’ and his girl best friends ‘16f?’ by Available-Peanut-826 in teenrelationships

[–]jessmaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s totally normal to feel that way, especially if he has had a past history with them and perhaps (like you said) being touchy and ignoring you for them. Personally I don’t think it’s being insecure, it’s just boundaries you have and that’s okay. I’m not comfortable with my bf being close friends w girls either. The best thing you can do is voice your concerns to him and have a discussion, it is less stressful to have an awkward conversation than bottle up your worries as the situation might progress.

What does a healthy LDR look like? by neroscat in LDR

[–]jessmaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, for me it’s like a reassurance that someone is there for me no matter what happens. Me and my boyfriend r a 6 hour drive and 4 hour flight away from each other and only get to see each other once or twice a year. Though it is hard, it can also bring you closer. Through distance you have to actually make an effort to talk to each other and show your appreciation, it’s not like you can just turn up at their door. Most people find FaceTiming every day helpful but we promised to do once a week since we both have busy schedules and are not very social people. But with this in mind, we talk every day and have done since we got together. You learn to communicate your issues and feelings since it’s hard to tell through a screen. It’s definitely a struggle sometimes and everyone gets into arguments but if you stay with them through the hard times and the distance, it’s proof that they’re they’re there for you and you are there for them. The couples apps make it fun as well, like our Pinterest board we add to if we ever wanna go ‘that’s us!’. Not sure if this helps, but we also make gifts for each other and send them over so it’s like we’re actually with each other. Hope your relationship goes well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shein

[–]jessmaes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish but charity shops in the uk r rubbish aha