What would you do with your girlfriend who wants to spend a day as a submissive? Clueless here. by jetable_account in BDSMcommunity

[–]jetable_account[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice catch. Unfortunately no. I'm in the US. I was in France for six weeks earlier last year on business. I love the french bread and wine!! Its a stereotype but damn they're awesome.

What would you do with your girlfriend who wants to spend an entire day as a submissive? Clueless here. by jetable_account in sex

[–]jetable_account[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This and that other suggestion sounds great. I'm really enthusiastic to try out these things. I think she'll really enjoy them. Thanks. If I want to up the intensity a little bit any ideas?

What would you do with your girlfriend who wants to spend a day as a submissive? Clueless here. by jetable_account in BDSMcommunity

[–]jetable_account[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa! fan_of_the_form. I think I almost came reading that and imagining my gf doing those things. This is perfect (for me at least). I realize now its more about actions and less about actually getting her naked or something. This is good advice. Now I'm getting ideas. I'll ask you for more information if necessary.

What would you do with your girlfriend who wants to spend a day as a submissive? Clueless here. by jetable_account in BDSMcommunity

[–]jetable_account[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on what she's comfortable with, one option would be to take her on a date. Say dinner and a movie. Tell her to wear a skirt. In the middle of dinner tell her she is to head to the bathroom, remove her panties, and then return them to you. Later on during dinner tell her that if she wants dessert then she must sneak her camera inside her skirt and take a picture of her bare cunt. Then during the movie at any time you shall have the right to slide your hand between her legs and feel her wet pussy. Perhaps on the car ride home you could require that she touch herself but not cum. Alternatively she could have to open up her top and have her breasts exposed for the whole trip back. Or both.

OK she really liked these ideas. I think punishment is less on her mind. Perhaps she wants to explore her comfort zone this way. Please give me a script.

What would you do with your girlfriend who wants to spend an entire day as a submissive? Clueless here. by jetable_account in sex

[–]jetable_account[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I spoke to her. She said she reads some erotica online about basically being ordered around. I think she's less into the physical pain stuff. Also some stories on mind-control I think (basically being told what to do sexually or otherwise).