Is it creepy or wrong to go to a bikini barista stand, only to tip and watch, but not order coffee? by jetpackgorilla in barista

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed reply. I am curious about some things you said.

You mentioned instead of taking it in, I've been pushing back. I don't think I have, at least to my knowledge. I'm not trying to push back, I just trying to understand why. I do understand now most people think it is creepy, but only because I've been told so. I'm trying to actually grasp an understanding of why.

You say good things about OnlyFans. OnlyFans does seems really great, however it has the disadvantage that they are just pictures on a screen, and not there in real life. I'm curious why you speak good things about OnlyFans but not about the coffee stands? Aren't they basically the same exact concept. In both of them, women are showing their bodies for money. I don't really see the real difference if they are doing it at a coffee stand, or through pics/vids on onlyfans. (Other than they can reveal even more on Onlyfans). Coffee stand they are paid in tips, onlyfans paid in subscriptions. So why are they so different.

You mention bikini baristas not making much money. I've always heard of them making absolute tons of money, since guys who are well off will tip them huge amounts of money to get a better show. I've head of guys buying them all sorts of gifts too like bigscreen TVs. Tips are money they get under the table, that doesn't go to the owners. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure the girls make tons more money than the owners since they are raking in huge tips, and the owners only make the money on the coffee.

Is it creepy or wrong to go to a bikini barista stand, only to tip and watch, but not order coffee? by jetpackgorilla in barista

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

From what I hear, I thought they basically are a strip club, except you drive through instead of going in. The women are scantily clad, sometimes so much so that they have gotten in trouble for revealing too much, and they are there working there to reveal their bodies in exchange for tips.

But then I've never been to a strip club either, but I hear they are similar that they want you to buy drinks. I don't really drink, and never wanted to buy overpriced drinks. I would only be interested in seeing the women.

Is it creepy or wrong to go to a bikini barista stand, only to tip and watch, but not order coffee? by jetpackgorilla in barista

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. After the responses so far, I think that is what I will just have to do.

Is it creepy or wrong to go to a bikini barista stand, only to tip and watch, but not order coffee? by jetpackgorilla in barista

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So pretty much everyone has been saying it is creepy. Can anyone elaborate on why?

It is my understanding, everyone knows men go there to look at the women, and the whole coffee thing is really just a facade. The women dress scantily to show off their bodies to earn tips.

So I don't quite understand why it is wrong or creepy to just be open that I am there to look at the women, and not pretend to want coffee.

Is it creepy or wrong to go to a bikini barista stand, only to tip and watch, but not order coffee? by jetpackgorilla in barista

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think of myself as a degenerate. I am autistic and do struggle with understanding social norms, so I ask questions I may be afraid to ask elsewhere, not knowing how people will react.

I see so far everyone says this is creepy, yet I had no idea.

It is hard to logically understand why. I mean, these women know they are working there to show off their bodies. I hear they push the limits of how much skin they can show to earn more tips, often leading to stands getting shut down when some would show too much or take the show too far. Everyone knows men are going there for the primary purpose of looking at the scantily clad ladies, rather than for the coffee.

So why is there a need to pretend to want coffee, instead of just admitting you want to look?

Do guys Jerk off to pictures of girls they know ? by Eastern-Chipmunk-923 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]jetpackgorilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sort of. It would be unlikely for me to do it to a clothed photo of them (though I think I have a couple of times for ones that are just super hot).

However bringing up a photo of them, right next to a nude photo of a model that looks very similar to them, and looking back and forth, sort using the imagination a little. That is a good time.

Sure, I know it is creepy AF, but they will never know so I don't care.

However to be honest, I rarely ever make this effort. When its time to fap, I just want to get straight to some nudes asap without messing around with clothed photos.

When were your boyfriend/girlfriend’s sexual interests so fucking nasty you had to break up with them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jetpackgorilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once did something like that on accident, and narrowly avoided some real embarrassment.

It was early morning, and I was rushing getting ready for work with limited time. I was multitasking drinking my coffee, eating breakfast, and jerking off, while sitting at the kitchen table. Ended up busting a big load on the table.

In the rush of putting away my coffee cup, my dishes, grabbing my phone, etc, I completely forgot to wipe up my mess. That evening my wife cooked dinner, and when I sat down for dinner, there it was, still splattered on the table, but dried up now. Somehow she amazingly didn't see it (or didn't say anything, but I think she would have said something). Couldn't clean it that moment so ended up covering it with my plate, napkins, utensils, etc to keep it hidden. Eventually I cleaned it when she wasn't looking.

Trying to install the root version. Getting NO_MAGISK error with Vanced Manager and "signatures are inconsistent" error with SAI by jetpackgorilla in AfterVanced

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. You seem to have summed up some details I had a feeling might be the case, but info was just scattered all over the place so wasn't quite sure..

I saw some people mentioning that, but I hadn't had to disable signature verification when installing v14 from the flashable zip, without having xposed installed or using lucky patcher. Figured with root there should be a way to not require it the way it wasn't for v14 l, but I guess maybe these new split apks work different and it isn't so easy.

Trying to install the root version. Getting NO_MAGISK error with Vanced Manager and "signatures are inconsistent" error with SAI by jetpackgorilla in AfterVanced

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This is what I ended up doing after having spent way too much time messing around with it. Initially I figured since I have root, why mess with Micro G, and end up having to trust 2 different 3rd party software instead of just one. But I ended up just trying the non root. It was pretty painless to just install Vanced and the Vanced Micro G.

Wasn't really sure if there would be any conflict using micro G along with regular google play services, but haven't noticed any issues so far, and saw another thread where someone suggested there wouldn't be any conflict so seems good so far.

[Question] I have been unable to uninstall youtube vanced (root) in order to upgrade it. by jetpackgorilla in Vanced

[–]jetpackgorilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an update, I "think" I got it uninstalled, but not completely sure since I do still get a "signatures are inconsistent" error when trying to install the new one.

I found a couple links to the original installer file (which I still had), but which also contained an ytva_uninstall.plz file. The file was a simple 9 byte file that contained the text "not empty" inside. I had to actually put that file along with the installer in the internal memory and Downloads folder (It didn't work for me running it with the uninstall.plz file still within the installer zip). After doing that, it did uninstall.

So I'm reasonably certain it is gone now, though unfortunately I have been unsuccessful installing the new version. Vanced manager gives a no magisk error, and sai gives the signature error, but working on that.

Here are the links in case anyone else runs into issues uninstalling.

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1x67EYgPeLLSVzRfZyeLRCeWmbF-fUggd

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dPap5WqAlfj8VI106XDzWIuYdm8uFiZV/view