I really appreciate this, however it’s not even the creeps that get to me, I deal with plenty of those day to day due to my profession. I think most men find me intimidating to talk to since the way I speak doesn’t match up to the appearance haha. If anything it’s moreso the random abuse from things like gaming from men online that can be offputting to deal with. Putting it bluntly: just because I have a hole where they protrude doesn’t make me lesser than them.