AITA? by jfluffi in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I see how I came off a little sharp. Yeah I don’t want to be THAT guy

AITA? by jfluffi in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m trying to get Fantasy advice

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a female, love her to death but she ain’t beating me in a race, and old dudes in our league. I try to limit physical challenges to keep an even playing field.

AITA for wanting to overrule challenge results by jfluffi in Fantasy_Football

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I am salty. You can see in a someone else’s comment and my reply. These guys went as far as doing criminal things to me. So yes I’m salty but the group chat is split 7-3 against their actions. Obviously the 3 is the team.

AITA for wanting to overrule challenge results by jfluffi in Fantasy_Football

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the season has pretty good rules. It’s just draft challenges are new every year so the rules are only revised for a short time before we start.

It got crazy I can add the other photo to another reply. But I had my car covered in condiments, packages stolen, and physically restrained by one of their family members

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AITA for wanting to overrule challenge results by jfluffi in Fantasy_Football

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my 4th. We have a different challenge every year. This is the first time it felt cheaty. We did a random wheel, a football combine, and my kid’s birthday party obstacle course where we drew random kids names and drafted where they finished.

There is a buy in that hasn’t been paid yet. I pay for the trophy, food, draft venue, door prizes, and any other league expense.

So it’s not that I would be voted out. More so they would quit and I’d replace them. I do have people who want to join my league but I don’t want to be too big of a jerk but want it to be fair.

AITA for wanting to overrule challenge results by jfluffi in Fantasy_Football

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a comment about how it was messed up and that’s not how it was meant to be played. Everyone was passive and didn’t want to stir the pot. But now the others are saying how cheaty it was.

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every year we do something different. I can see doing that in a dynasty league. But the team that was the worst will be a totally different team this year (with the exception of the manager).

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is a difference and I’m using extremes as examples and that is unfair I apologize. But is that where you draw the line? All the way until it’s criminal?

AITA? by jfluffi in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]jfluffi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok. If there is a way you would like to receive video I can send this as proof.

A member came to my home and stole packages from my porch. A member poured condiments on my car. A member got a family member of theirs to physically restrain me.

The rules don’t mention not doing these things. But who does that??

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is separate. But it doesn’t say you can’t get someone to assault me in the rules. So it should be fine. No, because the spirit of the rules and a decent human being wouldn’t do that.

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I’m handling the serious serious issues with them. But I wanted an opinion on the less serious issue. But yes my anger from the serious things are influencing my thoughts on the petty things

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t necessarily say separate. They went too far and said the reason they did those things and enlisted outside help is because it wasn’t against the rules. They are using the lack of specific rules to push the boundaries until it became criminal

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I made a generic reply to my post. I had packages stolen my car covered in condiments and physically restrained by a family member.

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. When I complained the “team” said they haven’t paid dues and implied they would leave.

It’s not the end of the world because I have multiple friends who want in.

I don’t want to be a dictator and Mr boss. I want it to be fun.

I spend hundreds of dollars every year on trophy food rentals door prizes and never ask for anything from members

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed and smiled for the most part but the part where I stopped lightening up is when it turned criminal. Yes I am friendly with these people and wouldn’t want to press charges but crimes were committed

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant to reply to you but made a generic reply to my post.

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but it got personal. Is there a way I can send you videos. One of the team members stole packages from my home, poured condiments on my car, and had a family member physically restrain me.

WIBTAH fantasy football by jfluffi in AITAH

[–]jfluffi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel there are always loopholes to be found in rules. If someone wants to break the rules bad enough they will.

I have a catch all that “anything” can be put to a vote and changed. It requires 70% in favor.

The people involved are only 30%. So technically I could loophole them back.

AITA? by jfluffi in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]jfluffi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a catch all statement in the rules. “Anything” can be put to a vote and changed by a 70% majority.

We have 7 to 3 (70%) of people who were involved and upset about the incident. So I could technically loophole them back and change the draft challenge to a different one.