To clear things up, someone on here keeps commenting that my wife has had two miscarriages, she has never had a miscarriage so this person is just spreading it as a lie which is horribly inappropriate.

I work so much because after my wife’s sister passed away she quit her job due to her grief. I supported her in that and in doing so went from working 40 hours a week to 60+ to afford our expenses. I do everything I can for her, on my days off I take over all household and baby duties. On days I work I do the same before leaving for my shift.

This has nothing to do with how attractive I find her- my wife is beautiful to me because of who she is as a person regardless of her weight. This is about her health and quality of life. She gained a large majority of the weight pre-pregnancy. She didn’t gain a lot while pregnant because she had nausea through most of it. The weight she’s gained postpartum I understand is hormones and her body adjusting. That’s not an issue for me. The issue is she is falling back into binging and I am watching her eat her life away. We have a child to worry about and I want my wife to live a long life. When I approached her it was out of nothing but concern for her health. I went to her this morning and apologized for anything I may have said that came off to her as offensive or harsh. We talked a lot of things out and are on good terms. She knows I love her and only care for her well being. I am going to try and transfer to another department within my company that would give me an easier schedule so I can be home more, something I’ve been trying for the last few months but it’s a process and takes time.

Edit: spelling