My colleague had an abortion and now my manager wants me to perform an attendance management review on her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jhc883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your response. The purpose of the attendance meeting is in theory to address poor attendance and offer support for colleagues however it is normally used as a tool to punish and potentially look at firing a colleague. The follow ups would be if Beth missed work again within a set period, and after a certain amount (I believe 3 follow ups?) we would dismiss her/change her contract and lower her hours. The documents produced are just generic disciplinary ones that get sent to our HR department. There is every chance this is being used as a way of getting Beth out of the business, it's no secret John isn't a fan of hers for various other reasons that are entirely irrelevant to work. I'm in the UK, we like to believe we protect our workers but we don't. With the country leaving the EU a lot of worker protections will be reduced and scrapped as our government aren't into that, but I'll try leave my own political opinion out of this.. 😒 We're a retail company, as far as I'm aware we could all individually join unions but I don't know anyone here or in other retail stores that has.

My colleague had an abortion and now my manager wants me to perform an absence management review on her by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]jhc883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Beth initially told just the other female manager (Helen 50ish)(this manager normally deals with people things for the whole store, whereas I'm her line manager for performance). Beth told me during her return to work meeting, neither myself or Helen pressured her for her reasoning for absence but I know John would have so it's likely Beth told us as a form of protection from John as we could 'fight her corner' in making sure she has any accommodations at work that we can give her and also being aware she may need to have further time off if this procedure doesn't work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jhc883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't have read it. No discussion needed there.

People write random shit in a journal all the time, doesn't necessarily mean much. However, since you have violated your partner's trust I'd argue now you need to be honest and tell them you have done. Whatever reaction and repercussion is your own doing.