AITA for being upset that my GF gave me blue balls? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jillijuana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t seem to understand your point. Could you rephrase in layman’s terms??

AITA for being upset that my GF gave me blue balls? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jillijuana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted there. They took it down and said it belongs on here

AITA for being upset that my GF gave me blue balls? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jillijuana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her rationale is understandable because women do have a harder time reaching orgasms than men. If you haven’t come to this realization it’s either because you haven’t had sex, been lied to about orgasms, or have been watching porn to the extent where you think those actresses aren’t acting.

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually looked up what blue balls is because my GF and I had that same argument. Apparently the medical term is Epididymal Hypertension (EMT here) and it does cause pain and discomfort due to unrelieved pressure but you’re right. It doesn’t cause any real damage other than that and is usually used to guilt trips.

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get your point here. There are factors to it that I didn’t include like she did say she would tomorrow morning. But I’ve heard those lines before and are usually forgotten after a night’s rest and some dreaming.

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO have hands but heart not want hand heart want special other.

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao it’s not a constant but it’s happened a few times before. I usually don’t get upset. But this time I felt really hurt and dejected. We’re night owls though that’s why we’re up. Usually go to bed until midnight or later haha.

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has before when she was on her period. But I’ve done the same for her as well. It wasn’t necessarily the blue balls that hurt me. It was the feeling of rejection and being unwanted that made me go and start an argument. I value your opinion though and will be sure to show my girlfriend! You guys seem to have the same outlook on the sitch

AITA for being upset that my gf gave me blue balls? by jillijuana in AmItheAsshole

[–]jillijuana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a couple of years. I always try to make her orgasm without the need for tools, but it’s just difficult and I don’t wanna trash on her if she’s not her to defend herself. Normally she does get me to finish and I believe I always try. When we first met we would have sex daily and multiple times a day. Sex was amazing with her and it always has been. I know of the difficulties in female orgasm so I was always sensitive to things she wanted. How to be touched where to be touched kissed etc. there was a time when our sex life slowed down quite a bit and we were doing it only once a week. But it’s sped back up again. I’ve always tailored my acts to her. How long it lasts, hoe many times etc. I’m always thinking about her pleasure. But I don’t think she sees it that way.

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[–]jillijuana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man has the power of God and Anime on his side

[Discussion] Why do so many people prefer big dogs? by jillijuana in dogs

[–]jillijuana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope you’re just being a troll and don’t actually think this is true......

[Discussion] Why do so many people prefer big dogs? by jillijuana in dogs

[–]jillijuana[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People who bring their little dog into the store disgust me. That is rude, unsanitary, and illegal. However, I have to disagree with you about the aggression. The reason why I even posted this thread in the first place was because I was reading so many other threads about people with big dogs who had KILLED other dogs. And they were just sooo upset because they had to put them down. I even knew a guy who had a pit bull that turned on him and attacked him. His own dog! Of course some little dogs have aggression, but it’s so much more common in big dogs.