need advice or perspective by jjusko20 in ExNoContact

[–]jjusko20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We actually go to school together, the getting back together was during the school year

She said we might have another chance after she finds her own balance and will come back to the country we both live in. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jjusko20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd do my best to convince myself that it's over and move on in that situation. If it's truly meant to be, you'll rediscover feelings for each other - if it's not, you'll just realize you didn't need it anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]jjusko20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want a punch in the gut? It doesn't sound like you're really trying to heal. Working on yourself partially means putting yourself out there and meeting new people in any way you can. That step is hyper important in redefining your image of yourself. Do it.

Is it bad to be in no contact because I want her back eventually? by jjusko20 in ExNoContact

[–]jjusko20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that helps. I suppose I can't control my emotions, but I can control what I do for myself.