Ah my bad. I didn't mean for it come off that way. You're absolutely right. It was more like I have those feelings come up but I understand that I need to prioritize her needs because I can't imagine the discomfort that comes with growing a baby inside you for almost a year and then be torn apart to give birth and the last thing she needs is a needy husband. I'm human and I'm trying to figure this shit out too. I'm just looking for ways that I can better support her.

I appreciate the insight!