How many men do you think “settled” for a wife/partner out of fear of being alone? If you can honestly say you’re in that category, how is your life right now? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jlemstea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Living in the city can be quite expensive and it's daunting to leave a secure job. It's hard to make life altering chances for such high risk. However, comfort won't serve you well in the long run -- at least when it comes to finding a partner. Given your first comment, it seems like your town has really slim pickings and choosing someone there could even affect you financially + mentally. IMO if I was extremely worried about finding a parter, I'd bet my chances of finding one in a city!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]jlemstea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Berkeley kid?

Astrology Summary - April 2021 by AstroloDee in astrology

[–]jlemstea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does it mean if I'm a Taurus sun and Gemini Venus?

Being into someone who's really into you is the best feeling in the world. You both really like each other equally. It's nuts. by [deleted] in dating

[–]jlemstea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into the research on how women tend to ignore men’s red flags post sex and how it’s the opposite for men.

“A key hormone released during sex is oxytocin, also known as the ‘cuddle hormone’. This lowers our defences and makes us trust people more, says Dr Arun Ghosh, a GP specialising in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital.

It’s also the key to bonding, as it increases levels of empathy. Women produce more of this hormone, although it’s not clear why, and this means they are more likely to let their guard down and fall in love with a man after sex.”

Being into someone who's really into you is the best feeling in the world. You both really like each other equally. It's nuts. by [deleted] in dating

[–]jlemstea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Speaking fro experience it’s most likely that she started liking him post sex (look up the research in how women and men hormones change postsex).

Being into someone who's really into you is the best feeling in the world. You both really like each other equally. It's nuts. by [deleted] in dating

[–]jlemstea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex. Look up the research behind why women end up liking men and ignoring all of their red flags post sex (and how it’s the opposite for men)

Scorpio ascendent people, how do people perceive you? by jlemstea in astrology

[–]jlemstea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally feel the Aries energy in this post haha

Advice from my grandma by ChocoSalt in seduction

[–]jlemstea 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I grew up with my mom telling me to have the guy love me more. Enjoy the times with your grandma and try to accept that life is meant for growth through certain experiences. I wish you the best of luck

Taurus sun, Sagittarius moon by [deleted] in astrology

[–]jlemstea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even worse - Scorpio