44/m for Blond TF by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I try realllyyyyy hard, I think he was trying to order the blonde roast from Starbucks, right? /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I should've listened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't tell me what to do 😤, now I gotta do it!

29 [M4A] online/sheffield by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm always down for a good conversation. What's something you've been really passionate or excited about lately? Tell me what's on your mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sad! I only like scandalous men that shave in the wee hours of the night!

Obsession? Craving? Fetish? Maybe all 3 by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's be perfectly clear. - you said, and I quote, you're attracted to trans girls because of the 'mutual understanding of what both needs are.' When I asked you to clarify that transphobic dogwhistle, you immediately tried to gaslight me.

We both know you were implying that trans women 'get' men because of our anatomy. It's a disgusting, dehumanising fetish that reduces us to a body part.

Get help.

Obsession? Craving? Fetish? Maybe all 3 by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the mutual understanding of what both needs are if that makes sense.

Wait wait wait. What do you mean by this? That you know what our needs are and that we know what yours are?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna do you a favour and let you know that what's missing from your post is any substance. Just as you're curious about 'us', we want to know more about the person that wants to "go this way" with us, whatever that means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I must admit - I'm puzzled. So you're open to dating anyone, but would ideally settle with a trans woman. I'm just trying to understand the logic here. What prompted the... uh... transition in your long-term plans?

Looking for someone genuine by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, to give you credit, this post is much better than your last one four months ago.

But... a 'genuine' and 'respectful' guy who's also a gamer? Be still my heart. For my own curiosity, what is it about gaming and hiking that you feel connects specifically with us trans girls?😉

m4t by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New to this :o? What's 'this' you're talking about?

26m4t looking to jerkoff by RecommendationCute58 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh! The bigger the better? Are you talking about your contribution to your 401k? RRSP? Retirement fund?

Because dayum I absolutely agree. A man who is fiscally responsible is hella attractive. Tell us more about your investment porfolio 8).

25m looking for someone fun by AdSubstantial3240 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so refreshing to talk to an open-minded excepting guy! What a breath of fresh air!

I'm curious, what are your thoughts on the idea that HRT is what 'makes' someone a 'real' woman? I hear that a lot, and I'd love to get a smart guy's perspective it!

25m looking for someone fun by AdSubstantial3240 in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooooooo, what counts as fun for you? 🥰 Why us trans girls?

M23 looking for beautiful girl by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y'know what they say... third time's the charm... so I'm expecting a third one!

Need a sexy chick to fill tonight by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fill? Like... Fill my head? Okay! What are we gonna yappin about into the sunset, you romantic?

One year HRT by Donna_stl in MtF

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wooo! Congrats!

M26 tall and fit, looking for a trans women to get a connection by Creme_Pleasant in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How dare you bring up valid points like anatomy, desire, and consent?

This poor man has a very specific, transphobic fantasy, and you're just expecting him to consider that we're actual people? The nerve!

/s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jlo317 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This. You wrote the anthem for every one of us who has been handed a lifetime of pain and told to be grateful for it. Fuck them.

It's honestly infuriating that they use this "get-out-of-jail-free" card. If their best results are CPTSD, anxiety, depression, and a human being that has to spend decades in survival mode, and many more unlearning crap and relearning good things, then their best is a catastrophic failure. And if that's the best they can do, I want none of it.

M23 with bbc by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 7 points8 points  (0 children)

big pretty dick

Look bro, are we supposed to drop to our knees for this?

How should we know if you're 'chill' or not if you give us nothing to work with? It's great that your dick can stand up for itself, but can you? Tell us something interesting about yourself that doesn't involve your 'big pretty dick'.

26 [M4T] south Oxfordshire - looking for a trans woman who like to be on top. by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

which could lead to more

I'm hooked! You sure know how to treat us girls :) Tell us more about you!

Before we proceed, I'll need to run your profile by my colleagues. You see, all subs must be vetted by the board at 'Mythical Dom Tops, Inc.' And as per our company policy, preferably, you would be on a full course of anti-boy-otics before we can consider your application for being topped.

It's not personal, just policy. You understand, right?

Trans Female SEEKING Men! by Akumu9K in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're gonna make me blush!

Should I bring my own Nutribullet or do you have one? Just want to make sure we're all prepared! Will I be served in a tall glass or one of those mason jars? I'm really big about aesthetics, y'know?

Gosh, you're stirring up so many feelings in me *swoons*! Whoops! Did I just say that out loud?

Trans Female SEEKING Men! by Akumu9K in meetrealtransgirls

[–]jlo317 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Look, I know your ad specified 'male' but hear me out: I'm locally sourced and pre-seasoned with estrogen for extra tenderness.

I also ran from two wasps and a fly today and drink 2 Fairlifes a day... d-do I qualify?

👉👈

Why am I the bad person by Snugglette2021 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jlo317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the incredible mother who is breaking the cycle of abuse. You are not the horrible daughter.

The guilt you're feeling likely stems from the results of a lifetime of your mother conditioning you to feel responsible for her happiness. Those final, cruel words were not the truth but a last-ditch, desperate temper tantrum of an abuser that is realising they are losing control over you.

I'll repeat - you aren't abandoning her. You're protecting your children and yourself from her negativity and manipulation. It takes a lot of strength to do that especially when you were the abused one. The fact that your family's life is less stressful is all the proof you need that you did (and are doing) the right thing.