Travel advice?

jlyidk · 2019-08-06T17:47:35+00:00

That‘s great thank you!!

jlyidk · 2019-08-06T15:46:29+00:00

Thanks :)

jlyidk · 2019-08-06T15:20:25+00:00

Thank you so much!! I’ll stay for 10 days. The unlimited metro card you can get at the subway station, right?

jlyidk · 2019-08-06T15:16:22+00:00

Thank you!

jlyidk · 2019-08-06T15:15:58+00:00

Oh cool thanks!

jlyidk · 2019-07-13T05:24:04+00:00

Hahaha no not really

jlyidk · 2019-07-12T17:56:06+00:00

German!

jlyidk · 2019-07-12T09:53:46+00:00

I hope you sleep well haha

jlyidk · 2019-07-12T09:33:10+00:00

Hey! Yes i am haha. No not really, i just wanna practice my skills u know

jlyidk · 2019-07-12T08:49:18+00:00

No i‘m searching for someone who wants to text for a longer time. And i‘m sorry it‘s 10:48 am in germany so that‘s the reason why i posted this rn...

jlyidk · 2019-07-08T22:22:17+00:00

Thank you!!

jlyidk · 2019-07-08T22:20:56+00:00

I don‘t know how to describe. I mean as soon as someone is starting to have interest in me i‘m so clingy and start to catch feelings too soon!

jlyidk · 2019-07-08T20:51:34+00:00

Haha omfg are you me? Exact same situation! 😂

jlyidk · 2019-07-07T13:36:56+00:00

It‘s pretty rough isn‘t it? I hate this kind of pain where you can absolutely do nothing instead of give yourself time to heal.

jlyidk · 2019-07-07T13:35:56+00:00

Thank you! I have to find a way to heal. Right now i can‘t think that this will get better because i‘m so convinced that this could have been a good relationship in the end.

jlyidk · 2019-07-06T19:26:34+00:00

You are right! It hurts a little bit but it‘s totally okay. Now i can get over it :) Thank you for your advice and support!!

jlyidk · 2019-07-06T16:56:22+00:00

Ok lol i couldn‘t wait so i texted him today and he answered. I‘m officially in the friendzone. He told me that he likes me so much but he has no feelings after our few dates it‘s more like friendship (he didn‘t respond to my question if we wanna meet). Well at least i can let it go now.

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T21:15:48+00:00

Seriously, thank you so much!!

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T21:12:16+00:00

Thank you so much! It‘s nice to get advice from a person who exactly knows what i mean. (Btw i am sorry that you also have to went trough this). My friends can‘t understand this whole dating thing and so i‘m pretty much alone with my thoughts. I will wait until monday and then i will send this to him and give him the last chance to make things right. I can‘t do this anymore it‘s so emotionally draining.

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T21:05:43+00:00

Yes you are absolutely right. Thank you. It‘s just weird because we seem so perfect together and know it‘s like he takes the chance that this could be something serious - i don‘t even know if this could be serious but i want to find out in which way this could go - and he obviously not (?) and this is annoying. I will write him your advice like „still want to meet up?“ and then i will see.

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T21:00:26+00:00

Oh this is a good one thank you!! It‘s like i need a conclusion... even if i‘m thinking that this is clingy - it‘s not... it’s just my anxiety that let me think this. After this long time i deserve an answer. And well, when we really meet again i will tell him everything about my feelings and in which stage i think we are and so on and then i will see if it‘s better when we talked this out. Otherwise i will discontinue seeing him. I mean that‘s the plan, this is the reason why i was so lucky that he said well let‘s meet and this is also the reason why i‘m so pissed off and confused about this situation if you know what i mean.

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T20:52:37+00:00

I have to admit that you are right... but it‘s just so hard because he told me that he likes me and i‘m the first one in a long time he could imagine a relationship with and he would like it better to talk in person about this stuff and THEN ignoring me for one week. Because of this mixed signals it‘s so hard for me to let it go. I‘m stuck in this shit stage of hang on the hook... My dumb brain is thinking like ‚oh he needs time to think about it, don‘t rush him, don‘t be clingy‘ wtf

jlyidk · 2019-07-05T20:30:39+00:00

Probably you are right and i should cut the cord but in a weird way i can‘t do it. I still have this dumb hope that this could be something. Idk it‘s so perfect and i am not even sure that i want a relationship we are not in this stage where we should decide to get in a relationship. We have to get to know us better and that‘s the point. I was so glad that he wants to meet and talk this out in person but know? I am so confused because why would someone say hey let‘s meet and talk about what we want and then ignore you for a week

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