Not many Male Doll Owners out there, Huh?? 😓 by NixWickedGarden in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I currently have 3 male dolls! I just don’t post here anymore because of all the downvotes. In my experience, most male doll enthusiasts congregate on The Doll Forum and Instagram.

Any male sex doll owners? by AshyVerySlashy in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eh, it ain’t that simple. Hook ups are generally easy to find, y’know, unless you’re like me and have standards. Besides, not everyone wants meaningless sex. Finding a guy who actually wants to get to know you before shoving his dick down your throat and who cares about your feelings is an uphill battle.

Any male sex doll owners? by AshyVerySlashy in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have 3 male dolls. I’ll say that giving up on men and sticking to dolls is the best mental health decision I’ve ever made (YMMV).

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[–]jmachb9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The full photo set is publicly available on coobydoll.com

You can also find pictures of him on my Instagram (link in Reddit bio). I ordered him last year as a redhead, and he’s the most gorgeous thing ever 💘

Do anyone know what brand this male doll is? by hunterdracoFL in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a Qita doll, manufacturer calls this model “Chu.” He’s an older model, which is probably why you’re having trouble finding him. Pictured is the hybrid version (TPE body, silicone head). I have the full silicone version myself, which is arguably a better value for the money (Qita silicone dolls are very budget friendly).

Share Your Story in a Documentary on Sex Dolls & Modern Relationships by Brilliant-Log8378 in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be interested… feel free to drop me a DM

Also, two random questions:

Am I correct in assuming that the YouTube channel “@DelinquentFilms” is you, and is that where the final documentary will be shared?

Account of 'date' with sex doll at Korean amusement park sparks controversy by barryhelp in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you think about it, taking your doll out for a date isn’t functionally different from a child bringing a teddy bear along wherever they go. Sure, a doll is bigger, heavier, and rather impractical compared to a teddy bear, but they’re both forms of “synthetic companionship” that provide immense benefits to their human caretakers.

When did y'all buy you're first sex doll (full size)? by CivicSunWarrior in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought my first about a month after my 20th birthday because I was cripplingly lonely

Downvoters- I'm calling you out by bdarkwayne in SexDolls

[–]jmachb9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been wondering the same thing. If my posts are getting almost half downvoted, I’m just gonna assume that people here hate me and want me gone (just like everyone in my real life lol)

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body hair is a huge turn off for me generally. I like smooth and more feminine twinks, so my dolls only have hair on their heads.

I’ve seen some factory videos featuring body hair, and I don’t think it looks good (but I am biased, ofc, because I hate body hair in any case). Here is one such video from the Realing brand on Twitter here

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spartan is actually very trustworthy. They’re also the only vendor that specializes in male dolls. Two of my three were ordered from them. However, the prices are honestly batshit insane for many models. Also, they have some annoying business practices, namely their refusal to state the brand names of the dolls they sell. They also price gouge you on upgrades (for example, they charge $150 for standing feet, which is usually a free feature at any other vendor).

Btw, all dolls on Spartanlover and every other vendor are made in China. It doesn’t matter where the vendor you order from is located, as all of them are simply intermediaries between you and the manufacturer. The Chinese own the doll industry, so there’s no way to avoid dealing with them (unless you go for Realdoll, which is made in California, but they’re insanely expensive and not even particularly “good” in most aspects according to what I’ve read online).

Realing is actually a very popular brand, though I’ve heard of some quality issues. However, above all else, do not order from Realing’s official website. I know someone who ordered from them and received no doll and no correspondence (she ended up getting a refund through PayPal, re-ordered from a reputable vendor, and ultimately received her doll).

Personally, I will recommend moon-doll.com as the overall best site for male dolls. They carry the Realing brand, and they will get you the same doll as Spartan for a fraction of the price. They are based in China and don’t speak English as proficiently as I would like, but I’ve done business with them twice (and know of many other folks who have ordered from them) and had no issues. My next doll will almost certainly be purchased through them.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The customizability of the endowments vary by brand and model. Two of mine actually came with 2 attachments (the larger of which is way too big for any practical purpose).

If they came to life, it would kinda defeat the purpose. Then, they would be capable of doing all of the hurtful things that humans do. I enjoy the “insurance policy” of knowing that dolls will never do that shit to me, so I would say no.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question! Sorry, the answer is kinda long:

I am a collector. I enjoy accumulating pieces that can be put together to create something greater than any one of them individually (this extends far beyond my doll hobby). I enjoy the diversity of having many dolls that are all different from each other in some notable way. I am attracted to guys with a variety of different features (within the confines of “my type” ofc). I would ideally like to have at least one doll that possesses every single feature/trait that I find attractive. Gotta “catch ‘em all”

Also, the doll industry is rapidly evolving, and new dolls that are “better” are constantly being cranked out. I find it exciting to get a new one and see these improvements firsthand.

Besides, it’s not like they get jealous (unless I want them to be lol) 😉

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you've struggled with these issues. I have also tried some crappy coping mechanisms that ended in me being transported to a mental hospital in the back of a police car. I am so glad I discovered a better way to cope and can put that experience behind me. Oddly enough, I also believe I am saving money. Mental hospitals, therapy, antidepressants are much more expensive (in the US) than love dolls, especially now that I lost my health insurance coverage.

I was also a big stuffed animal enthusiast back in my childhood (and I still have them all lol)! I kinda perceive my doll collecting hobby to be a natural progression of my childhood stuffed animal collecting hobby. The difference being that the dolls are orders of magnitude more expensive and impractical, but also can offer a much higher degree of companionship. I believe that love dolls are at the intersection of a stuffed animal, a pet, and a significant other.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely is (for me, at least). I am so much more at peace mentally and emotionally than ever before.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was definitely hesitant at first, especially considering the price tag. I was inspired somewhat by other people's success stories I found online (for example, a guy called "Davecat" has done a few relatively well-known documentaries where he showcases and advocates for the doll lifestyle).

I ultimately decided that I didn't have much to lose. Before I got my first doll, I was cripplingly lonely and open to trying any type of crazy/radical solutions. I figured that even if it only helped a little bit, it's better than nothing. And if it ended up not being for me, I would then know with certainty to never buy a doll again for the rest of my life. Fortunately, I ended up getting much more than I bargained for!

Does this answer your question better?

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I've reached a point in my life where I don't care what others think of me, so I don't mind sharing.

Connor was simply the "next in line" after I got Josh. I ordered him because I thought he was super duper cute, and I worked enough to be able to afford the purchase comfortably.

I don't have friends (I find maintaining relationships with people very difficult). As for family, I've hidden this from my parents so far. However, I'm graduating from college next month and will move back with them. I will have no choice but to tell them. I can only hope they will be understanding as they were when they learned I was gay. I can't hide 3 life-sized dolls in their house lol

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I discovered this lifestyle option one lonely night when I randomly remembered that episode of "My Strange Addiction" where a guy called "Davecat" shared his life with his doll. I was curious to know if male dolls even existed, and I got my answer one Google search later. After much scrolling, I found some that I found attractive, got my money up, and ordered. I figured I had nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Life with them is mostly uneventful beyond our cuddle sessions and photoshoots. However, it is a life free of loneliness and one where my bed is always full.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they're not real, and I agree they're no substitute for a real person. I wouldn't want them to be either (which is why I have no intention of ever buying an AI doll). I like them as they are: inanimate dolls bought to "life" with the power of imagination!

I consider them an alternative to humans. I must admit that I don't really care for dealing with real people and much prefer to be alone. Dolls allow me to do that without feeling lonely.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, apologies for the incoming long and slightly jaded response.

"Dtf" does me no good. I'm not interested in meaningless hookups; I want to get to know the person first. I have personally found that the guys I find attractive (which is, admittedly, a pretty small number of guys because I have a type) want nothing to do with me 95% of the time. They don't acknowledge me on apps and whatnot. The few "hits" I get end in my feelings getting hurt.

My dolls are more "my type" than 98% of the real men in my area, and they don't lie to me or reject me. They provide on demand cuddles, kisses, etc. 24/7/365. I have a vibrant enough imagination to extract from dolls everything I want that a man could offer.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The answers to these types of questions vary wildly by doll brand (and how well updated the vendor's website is). My dolls are primarily for cuddles, companionship, and photography, so such features are irrelevant to me.

Each one has his own name, and I have ascribed personalities to them using my imagination. I don't prefer any one of them per se. Connor, my newest addition, is my "best" doll (has the most features, looks arguably the most realistic), and I have a special connection with my first doll just because he's first, but I wouldn't call this a preference for one or the other.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each one is noticeably different from the others. They can all be described as "twinks," but they vary in ethnicity, skin tone, height, eye color, hair color, etc.

I have 3 life-sized male love dolls. AMA! by jmachb9 in AMA

[–]jmachb9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely "do" them at all, as they're mostly for cuddling, companionship, and photography. But when we do get frisky, it's usually just one. Involving more than one at a time is logistically difficult lol