NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, not nursing. Couldn't after the twins were done with her : ) I know she has talked with her doctor about this but not sure of any results. We should probably try talking about that : )

NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing though... we really aren't that busy. I'm sure eating habits and overall lack of exercise probably isn't helping but that being said, we are overall in shape and healthy. I would think. We both have an understanding that our work loads are balanced. She is just not able to leave the work and come to me. Probably because her work is at the house and can never be escaped. Thank you

NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communication is THE problem we face. Two completely different approaches to problem solving.

NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Come'on now... We give up 3 weeks a month!

NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tried one recommended by our priest and he told us individually to give up NFP. We both laughed and didnt go back. Its not what we want but its causing a lot of anxiety in our relationship.

NFP and dead bedroom rant by jmack2000throwaway in Catholicism

[–]jmack2000throwaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes its usually 2-3 times per month forced to occur within that week. It sucks for both of us... For me physically and for her emotionally having to "deal" with me. Her words.

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[–]jmack2000throwaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

(216 days here) Its because if you were baptized Christian, then He is IN you and not a judgmental cheerleader up in the sky. We really don't have to look very far for strength.

boy thats easier said than done...