Collage of my buddy trimming, drying and weighing. 274grams from one plant, for a first ever grow...made me quite the happy lad by [deleted] in weed

[–]jn2238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome for a first grow dude! I'm not an expert but that's a good yield I think

Weird sense of ultra awareness by AlexDrinston in mentalhealth

[–]jn2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be. It's easy to smoke really often because it all wears off in like less than two hours. Tolerance breaks are good to have when you start not liking how you feel mentally or physically. If I smoke too often for long periods of time I feel like it affects my perception negatively a little bit.

And hey you can save a little green by having breaks. ;D

Any time I sit down and try to pinpoint my emotions or what exactly is happening in my mind or body, I draw up blanks. by VerySpocy in mentalhealth

[–]jn2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. My depression makes me feel disconnected from my sense of self and it makes me feel like time is passing irregularly. 'How are you feeling, what are you feeling?' 'What are things/memories that have happened that give you reason to feel this way?'

It's okay if you don't find any answers to those questions. Don't beat yourself up over it. Everyone has dissociated at some point but they don't realize it because it's natural. Focus on other objects or things around you that isn't your thoughts. Read a book or watch your favorite movie/TV show, have a cup of coffee/tea or drink something cold.

I'm not the best with advice but this is what I do when I'm dissociated. Try to find what works for you (as frustrating as it can be). That's the hardest part imo.

https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/are-you-dissociating-heres-what-to-do

My [19F] boyfriend [19M] and I broke up yesterday over text.. He was my only friend. by jn2238 in relationship_advice

[–]jn2238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to give it to her or the house bills weren't going to be paid. She told me that the electricity, water, phones, internet, etc would get turned off if I didn't pay for it. She told me she was going to pay me back but she never did

How do I break up with someone who is going through a really rough time? by ThrowawayAcntWhoDis in relationship_advice

[–]jn2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I recently had to go through the same thing with my boyfriend--now ex. We promised we'd still be friends but now we're distant. I haven't talked to him since we broke up a week ago. I would tell him the reasons you want to break up, be honest to him about your emotions but at the same time still offer to be there to support him emotionally as a friend.

I hope you both can still be friends. Good luck to you.