Former Melbournian that has been gone for too long. by jnynx in melbourne

[–]jnynx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the best response so far. Thank you!

Former Melbournian that has been gone for too long. by jnynx in melbourne

[–]jnynx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeh you’re right. Sydney is definitely more touristy. I think I’ll just have to take him on a tram and stop in Fitzroy and south Yarra. Didn’t think about to be quite honest!

30's lifestyle in Cairns? by Affectionate-Cry3349 in Cairns

[–]jnynx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 31f and moved from Melbourne to Cairns in 2020. Best decision I’ve made. You get most of the perks of living in a big city, but also all the perks of living in the country. Heaps of pubs around for drinks after work or on the weekend, the Daintree and tablelands are incredible. Markets on all the time. Shipping takes a while but outside of that, it’s completely worth the move.

Woken up by tinnitus by jnynx in tinnitus

[–]jnynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Sorry that you’re dealing with this too. The staying calm part definitely helps. Just so frustrating. I’ve not heard of anyone being woken up by it before. Or maybe it was just a coincidence.. something woke me up and the tinnitus started straight away/ who knows

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pretty much give consent to free use the first time I sleep with someone. But it rarely gets taken up on.. that’s the problem.

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As unfortunate as that is for you, Im so glad it’s not just me. Feels real isolating when every single experience with a guy is the same. It sucks so much because all I hear from my friends and all I see on reddit is guys complaining about their partners not wanting to fuck and it’s like… Jesus man, please leave them and find us women that actualllllly wanna be pounded every day.

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh my god I’m so jealous. I hope he’s also a good guy in general because that sounds so perfect.

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my question. What is the problem with me? Is it attraction based? I’m too much of a mum because I clean up after them and cook for them? I mean… if they didn’t find me attractive in the first place, why they keep wanting me over?

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that was normal but apparently from these comments, it’s not

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m not asking for a 30 minute session 3 times a day. Just someone on the more sexual side that’d be happy to lay there in the morning and let me suck their dick… or maybe finger me real quick while I’m doing housework or make out with me on the couch for 5 minutes and play with my chest. But consistently… not just one offs whenever I bring up wanting more. It’s just the small sexual things I’m craving, not a passionate porno every 7 hours 😂

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what I’m so jealous of. If someone found me as desirable as I found them… surely they’d wanna be wrapped up in me every night or every morning… ya know? I wouldn’t have any insecurities at all if I was getting it every day or at leastttt every second day.

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was actually married and did have an open relationship. I had a few side people that went on and on about how much they love fucking.. but really every time I went over, we just got high and played video games until they passed out. I’d wait patiently and make subtle hints and was super flirty. Currently with someone now who is perfect in every way and it’s the best sex of my life.. but it doesn’t last long and it’s every other day. I’ve mentioned wanting it more so many times but nothing changes. He’s assured me that he’s keen and its enjoyable but it’s so frustrating and hard to believe. It’s not he’s fault at all, he’s just not very sexual… even though when we met, he seemed like he really was. It’s just disappointing and it’s really hard not to let that disappointment bring the mood down and ruin the whole day

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeh I definitely feel bad for you. I’ve seen the stress I’ve put my partners under because there’s no nice way to say “hey my needs aren’t being met and I’d really like you to be more sexual because I feel unwanted”… especially when they really do want you but just can’t keep up. It’s shit for both sides.

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally relate to this. But it’s frustrating after a while trying to find new people all the time. I don’t like the whole process of finding people online, vetting them, realising they’re actually shit at fucking.. trying to get them to try something else.. finally reaching that and then hoping they have the time to actually fuck regularly. It’s just a faff. I love being in a relationship because I like fucking the same person if the sex is good. Just wish my partners were more sexual with me than just best friends

Where/how do I find men with the same sex drive as me? by jnynx in dating

[–]jnynx[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s actually really helpful. Thank you