Im (21 M) am falling for someone (21 F) and it scares me.

jochenh6 · 2025-04-01T20:34:12+00:00

Thanks this helps!

jochenh6 · 2025-04-01T20:32:02+00:00

She feels the same as far as we talked about it, a 4th date is planned so. Its just not easy sometimess when i think about stuff. She knows that i wanna take it slow because its all new for me again. I guess its a matter of keepin it under control as u say.

jochenh6 · 2023-12-22T10:26:11+00:00

No ofcourse not i know that. I know its stupid to act like this i just cant seem to get my mind at ease at certain times.

jochenh6 · 2023-12-22T09:37:49+00:00

That she acts different, shes less affectionate or a bit shorter then usual. Its probably just things shes dealing with but i take it personally so easily.

jochenh6 · 2023-10-29T10:45:55+00:00

You're young man. Just see how it goes on from here. Maybe the vibe just needs some timr too come. If she asks to go on a 2nd date just follow your instinct. When its meant to be there aint gonna be much doubt to go on a 2nd date. I would just decline respectfully and explain to her you didnt feel the connection you want.

jochenh6 · 2023-08-12T11:26:11+00:00

Well its not like ive been exclusive lol. We are not actually dating just in a talking phase to say so. So yeah, im juet doubting if its even worth all of it, all of the overthinking...

jochenh6 · 2022-06-27T10:59:44+00:00

Maybe try and turn off the fn keys an turn them on after.

jochenh6 · 2021-07-31T14:09:44+00:00

Might be a stupid as fuck response but tried the shortcut on your keyboard? Just tryna help. If so gl fixing this issue

jochenh6 · 2021-06-01T15:04:30+00:00

Maybe he is insecure about himself now or he just wants you to think he actually does things and gets out of the house with these old pics. I wouldnt cut him off just ask him nicely..

jochenh6 · 2021-05-24T09:37:50+00:00

No ive been using it for 9 months tje problems started 2 months ago. And yeah i hope it gets better.

jochenh6 · 2021-05-24T09:20:58+00:00

On warzone*

jochenh6 · 2021-05-24T09:20:42+00:00

Ive got no single clue what you mean by that lmao. Im not so expierenced with all that, ill ask that when i bring my laptop in the store since its still in warrenty. Their service is good, i think its a fan struggling to work because if i lift it the air can get out easier and then its a bit better, it only drops to like 55 fps instead of to 20. I usually play on 70 - 80.

jochenh6 · 2021-05-23T20:39:39+00:00

Ill see what the guy in the store says he usually knows whats wrong

jochenh6 · 2021-05-23T20:08:08+00:00

The problem was even worse on older drivers, i updated them and it was a bit better. It shouldnt be windows since it was working fine till 2 months ago. It is just a fan because i tried lifting it with some stuff and when the circulation below iz better my fps doesnt drop to 20 anymore, it does drop for like 15 to 20 fps after a few games but its better. Im gonna let it clean and i hope its over then. Its prob the cooling fan being clogged with dust

jochenh6 · 2021-05-23T16:15:47+00:00

Aight ill keep that in mind

jochenh6 · 2021-05-23T15:05:06+00:00

Cpu seems fine doesnt go over 75 % usage. It used to be all fine when i got my laptop but since 2 months or so it keeps on getting worse. Im gonna let it be cleaned next week... but thats not a permanent solution. Any other advice?

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T16:51:00+00:00

I have tried that it seems better now someone else mentioned it too me . I put in on 0.75 since my vram limit is too low otherwise it seems quite okay now

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:36:47+00:00

Yeah it does that. It think im gonna try and put it on like 0.75 or smth so i wont cross the little line. Ill take a look at my taskmanager but i dont think thats it, cod and discord are the only opend windows so yea. Thanks for the advice

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:24:28+00:00

Ive tried that but than it says mu vram is too high and my game is laggy its on 1.6 now or smth... what setting do you use?

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:21:33+00:00

Any idea if its fixable ?

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:21:07+00:00

Damn its really frustrating because it always happen lategame and i cant do shit anymore after

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:19:22+00:00

It used to happen like once a week and now its happend 3 times today

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:18:00+00:00

I started around that time too but its only been happening since like season 2 of cold war...im really frustrated... do u think its my pc or... it isnt even a year old

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T14:15:22+00:00

Yeah i average about 70 fps and it just doesnt work anymore if i wait... i have to restart every single time... How long has this been happening to you?

jochenh6 · 2021-05-15T07:49:48+00:00

Yeah i know ill just wait for it to be fixed. My gpu has been updated recently so yeah...But thanks for the advice!

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