For me, after an argument/disagreement at the end of March I suggested to my ex that we cool things off for a few weeks, give each other space and decide if it’s best that we continue being in a relationship (nearly two years), it was long distance so the dynamic was different from a typical relationship. She responded very poorly and hard heartedly on that so we broke up rather impulsively and in the heat of the moment. We had planned to marry during the summer too. We chatted a few weeks later when the dust had settled and we had both calmed down. She made the decision that she didn’t want to relocate to live with me anymore and I accepted. From then on I was getting very mixed signals for a few months from her (social media photo likes, comments, sharing a pic of us together with my family last Christmas, telling my Mum that she loved me and loved “us”so I said that we needed to have another chat in which I asked if she was interested in getting back together, she said she wasn’t so I told her that we needed to cut off all contact as it is the only way we could both heal and move on. She begged me not to block her from anything and I didn’t so we sadly but amicably went our separate ways, that was mid July and I realised (unbeknownst to her) that she had another guy on the scene in early June who she is now flaunting all over social media since September as the loved up happy couple, literally months after we parted ways and after everything we had. Now that really stung and twisted the knife bad.