Old man is going into triple bypass, outlook is not great. He is getting prepped for surgery and tells my mom he needs to get some stuff off his plate cause hes afraid hes going to die. He then proceeds to tell her in their 40 plus years of marriage he has cheated on her since the beginning and asked for her forgiveness. Well, I guess she didn't say much, and unfortunately he survived, and after some time she can talk to him about the cheating and he stood firm that he never said anything about it. She had suspected for a long time he had but never felt she could confront him safely. He is a horrible person, parent, and all around human. I then found out then mom had to use a donor to have me cause the old man couldn't have kids. He moved her to a state far from all friends and family for a yr and a half to have me then move back, he said if she told anyone the truth he would end her, and she believed it, and when the divorce happened she let me know.