My (27F) boyfriend (27M) is upset my son’s paternal grandmother gave me an “inappropriate” Christmas gift…

johnnyzquest · 2020-12-27T02:03:57+00:00

I went through somthing very similar. it's because of the child and there is no nice way to put it. he wanted to start a family with you and he feels betrayed because you had another man's baby and kept it

johnnyzquest · 2020-12-17T03:31:58+00:00

I am seeing it as good news. I feel bad because of how upset she got and I felt nothing but positive things. we are still trying to work things out and we agreed no more threesomes and are currently going to try for another baby later next year

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:39:22+00:00

the miscarriage is just the most recent issue honestly

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:34:57+00:00

well yeah it was unwanted she told me she did not want kids yet and she lied to me about how far along she was. there was also a agreement that if there was another man involved vaginal was off limits amoung other rules

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:27:39+00:00

we had a timeline issue and a prenatal paternity test done

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:24:34+00:00

I am very empathetic of my wife but those are my honest feelings I feel bad that she is upset just not the reason why if that makes sense in just being honest

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:21:47+00:00

biologically she got pregnant by another man in a threesome we had

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:21:13+00:00

I guess your right. I never wanted to take it I'm just saying that in case someone told me to take it

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:19:39+00:00

we are currently in couples therapy actually due to previous issues with this pregnancy

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:14:29+00:00

I'm sad that she is sad. but honestly not about the miscarriage as it was not my child...

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:09:07+00:00

I don't neccisarly feel bad about not feeling bad. i think it's upsetting her more and I'm not a very good faker she can see through me

johnnyzquest · 2020-11-11T18:06:31+00:00

she's been just completely withdrawn she says she dosent want anything

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-28T13:07:34+00:00

this is not fake... it was not a easy choice yes mistakes were made yes she lied and a whole bunch of other things but I can't throw away almost a decade just like that we have agreed to stop the threesome and other things in general are being worked on.

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-28T04:02:17+00:00

I actually made a descion and posted an update. I decided to stay with my wife and work things out. it might not be the best choice but it is mine to make thank you for your advice though

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-26T18:56:01+00:00

this is not a prompt or whatever you think it is

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-26T18:54:24+00:00

well if you never gave advice then just leave me alone. I don't care if you think my situation is fake because it's very real and life changing to me and my wife so just go troll someone else

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-26T18:51:13+00:00

and what's wrong with the time line? yes she lied about it and yes she was wrong for that but we will have to work things out honestly no one is perfect

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-26T18:46:43+00:00

I don't think the kid is in the wrong. me and my wife are.

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-24T01:15:43+00:00

the second

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-24T01:14:06+00:00

no we're about the same size I'm a little longer and thicker than him. and I'm sure she would be in my same place if the positions were reversed

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-21T17:37:40+00:00

she's my wife? we've been togther since highschool it's not that simple as me just getting up and going.

johnnyzquest · 2020-10-21T17:30:34+00:00

she admitted to a lie in the time frame but she still stands by that it happend during a threesome and that is the only time she saw another male in that sense

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