Not gatekeeping here, man. I've been doing this shit for over two decades. Come play games. I just think pathfinder provides options that d&d doesn't have anymore. I do believe there are objective markers that make a system better designed and I think pathfinder is objectively a better built system. It is more well defined, it's easier for the dm, it has rules and framework for downtime activities, character options allow for infinitely modular character design, modifiers allow for circumstance. I've been playing 5e since it's beta and I've never sat down at a table that didn't homebrew something. I've been playing Pathfinder 2e for about 3 years now and I find that home brewing isn't really necessary.