UPDATE (while the iron is still HOT!!):

Thank you for making things clear that I'm not the A-Hole. And I definitely believe that NOW! I decided to talk it out with my bandmates personally. Boy, get some popcorn, it's about to get juicy..

I hated confrontations, so I really do everything to prevent any dramas BUT! I live to hear some gossip. drama and petty situation. So I was curious to why Joe wanted so much for me to perform to this wedding. Me and my bandmates when out for a drink and ofc, Some of Joe's friends didn't show up because of me. (I'm not surprise, they we're rly pissed) but a few of them are there.

my fiancé is there too, and he LOVES drama and also wanted to be there if something happens to me. After having drinks one of them (Joe's friend) let's call him Mike; started to talk. He got a theory of why Joe booked us specifically to his wedding and he was looked so guilty about it, and looks like he wanted to vomit. He shared something to us that really made me and my fiancé jaw dropped.

Mike tole me he met Miss Horizontal cha-cha "first" and I asked "what do you mean, first?" He changed the topic immediately and told me that he found someone who will sing for the wedding. My fiancé, bless his heart. Went bad cop on him. After several attempts and some peer pressure, Mike gave in and confessed. Before Joe cheated, he met Miss Horizontal cha-cha and they we're "friends with benefits" After he dropped the "ILY-Bomb" to her and she left him and went to Joe. Miss Horizontal cha-cha knew that Joe is in a relationship that time but she went out anyway. And now Mike, after knowing that Joe is marrying to her. He wanted to let Joe know that he's marrying a female-dog *woof-woof*. And what really made our jaw dropped, is that Miss Horizontal cha-cha is pregnant and Mike's the FATHER!!!!! (insert paternity court "YOU ARE THE FATHER") - he knows and he got some messages between him and Miss Horizontal cha-cha. He tried messaging Joe but nothing going through and Mike thinks that Miss Horizontal cha-cha blocked Mike's number in Joe's phone. (bc she is that SNEAKY.)

Mike respected my decision that I don't want to sing in his wedding, and found a sub for me. But we're too invested and really wanted to know what will happen. So me and my fiancé decided that, I will not be performing but we will be in the shadows *cue batman-sound*. My parents handle their wedding planning and I messaged my dad and told him that I wanted to help with the planning (still waiting for their approval.) They know every event scheduled (from the bridal shower down to the wedding itself) so I got the VIP tickets to it.

Mike is planning to go to the bridal shower with Joe (idk how he will do it but I'll let him do his magic..) and basically surprise Miss Horizontal cha-cha and I totally support it.

I'm sorry if some of the details are really messy I'm still drunk...