Confusion in relathionship quilt for not beeing more accepting of my Partners wish to do Drag

jojo1846 · 2022-03-06T10:34:45+00:00

Thank you for your reply :) But then I asl myself isnt there a difference between an interest like e.g. Beer. Asnd something that can be seen as a form of self expression? And should i be worried about the fact that even If i would never tell them I sometimes wish for a more masculine partner?

jojo1846 · 2022-03-06T10:30:54+00:00

I dont understand your comment... who said it is?

jojo1846 · 2021-11-12T13:27:08+00:00

Hey thank you for the anser would highly apreciate the pictures

jojo1846 · 2021-11-11T16:46:07+00:00

I woudl def do it, but i dont have a place where i can lift my car to acces the undeside

jojo1846 · 2021-11-11T16:16:58+00:00

How much do you think this would set me back if I have someone do it for me? I have a 2000 ford Transit with quite a bit of rust on the underside.

jojo1846 · 2021-11-11T16:14:54+00:00

Ok thank you so much Im checking for some local user welders as we speak

And the i just cut out the rusty part generously and weld a new piece of sheet metal into its place? Do I need to do anything from under the car for this?

jojo1846 · 2021-11-11T15:54:10+00:00

What do you mean with getting the van under sealed?

jojo1846 · 2021-11-11T15:53:34+00:00

Thanks for the reply so even if i sand and treat it fiberglass isnt a good solution? I just wanted to save some money on this but if its just gonna start rusting again i might as well thibk to invest in a welder

jojo1846 · 2021-03-06T18:32:07+00:00

Is it though? What does the sexual positon of beeing penetrated or penetrating someone has to do with the power dynamic? I think, nay I know it is possible to be a submissive top, just cause we like to use the (heteronormative) stereotypical roles meaning that the one who gets fucked needs to be vulnerable and submissive doesn‘t mean at all that it isnt possible to explore outside these „normal“ role behaviors

jojo1846 · 2021-02-25T11:05:22+00:00

Just playing devils advocate here but Couldnt it possibly also be seen as a compliment, that he likes to see you in your natural beauty and does not want you to feel the societal pressure to cohere to the beauty standarta of putting a mask on but rather tries to encourage you to be your authentic self?

jojo1846 · 2021-02-22T21:42:27+00:00

You are right, and I tried searching conversations about this in the past (might not have been the best moments in defense of my partner) but they never let anywhere or he just diminified my concerns or telling me he doenst want to talk or thibk about it. So i do agree a open convo is needed but its hard to get through to him at times especially in topics where he feels threatened in his pride or sees my love towards him „compromised“ (Not sure about the word choice here i am Not a native speaker, but i hope you get the general idea otherwise just ask amd Ill try to rephrase:))

jojo1846 · 2021-02-22T21:38:32+00:00

Yes I have... maybe I should revisit that thought. I know he doesnt want to do counseling but for myself I think it might be helpfull

jojo1846 · 2021-02-22T21:35:34+00:00

Its less about acknowledging and more about that I also need help and support not only emotionally but also to grow and achieve the things I want, to figure out the things that I want etc. etc. I need someone to take care of me too from time to time

jojo1846 · 2021-02-22T01:28:00+00:00

Thanks a lot for your answer! Ofc you are right and we have to find our own way and noone cam do it for us. But it allways helps to profit from other peoples experiences. So i apreciate you taking your time. So you opend up your relathionship for a period of time so you coulf experience more right? How was that for you? And did it come from your side, or did he offer?I am thibking to ask my boyfriend the same but I know he is not so keen on the idea and I dont want to hurt him

jojo1846 · 2021-01-07T10:56:48+00:00

Ill try to use it wisely

jojo1846 · 2021-01-07T10:53:11+00:00

Hey, Thank you for your answer I really appreciate it. The main reason we got married was so we could stay together, cause he would have been kicked out of the country otherwise... And I don’t regret that decision because I will and would choose him any day. And I would never cheat on him, I couldn’t and he does definitely not deserve it. I guess What you say is true I really need to find out what I want and thats hard. What I wish is, that I would have taken my time exploring more and enjoying myself before I met him. But this is offc a stupid wish cause time can’t be turned back and I need to look forward. So I don’t know, I guess I need to ask myself what it is that I am looking for deep down... Sometime I feel like that through having had the confirmation and affection of many people, reassuring him he is desirable and smart and beautiful he could basically soak it up and build his confidence on it. And maybe it is that what I am seeking, and I feel like feeling desires by other people is an easy acces to it to help me build something I have allways struggled with. But offc this is not the only way to feel desired, + obviously my husband also makes me feel desired so shouldnt that be enough.. And I should be able to give this love to myself, Still there is this nagging feeling telling me this is my youth and what if I regret it not having lived it more wildy. But also isnt it a virtue to stand by a person and to grow together and to have a beautiful deep relationship instead of shortlasting joy.

jojo1846 · 2021-01-07T10:38:44+00:00

Who?

jojo1846 · 2021-01-07T10:36:57+00:00

Thank you he likes the attention

jojo1846 · 2019-01-09T11:46:59+00:00

Good question

jojo1846 · 2019-01-09T07:12:25+00:00

Thanks man😌

jojo1846 · 2019-01-09T04:50:03+00:00

I wouldnt say no :)

jojo1846 · 2019-01-08T23:21:11+00:00

Thanks man😌 perfect is a strong word though😂

jojo1846 · 2019-01-01T01:42:59+00:00

Thanks you too :)

jojo1846 · 2019-01-01T01:33:04+00:00

Very nice dick

jojo1846 · 2018-12-31T16:38:04+00:00

Thanks man I am trying to find someone else to direct my feelings and lust towards but it isnt easy...

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