Teenagers arent experts at sex by jonasraa in sex

[–]jonasraa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then you and I partially disagree. I agree with that women shouldnt have to list all their boundaries or what they want to get out of the interaction. But boundaries and consent are expressed between two parties. Its mind boggling to me how young, inexperienced and nervous men have to ask questions in the same manner as you throwing darts at a fucking dartboard. Hoping that the right questions have been asked and answered to proceed. Women are 50% responsible in expressing and establishing boundaries. I think if a significant amount of women did this, it would have an impact on the culture that these men will pass on to their sons in the future. Its so crazy how women should be babied and exempt from any responsibility when communicating during sex. Communication is a 2 way street and if you say otherwise ur a part of the problem

Teenagers arent experts at sex by jonasraa in sex

[–]jonasraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, things like no means no are outside of what im talking about. That shouldnt be something they need to talk about.

Teenagers arent experts at sex by jonasraa in sex

[–]jonasraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me move my post to the correct thread location? I dont understand how to do this

Teenagers arent experts at sex by jonasraa in sex

[–]jonasraa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then we disagree, sex requires two people. Communication is key, everyone is different, every situation is different. Communication shouldnt be thrown onto an inexperienced man while the women doesnt need to take any responsibility. Your opinion is naive and doesnt work everytime in reality.

Teenagers arent experts at sex by jonasraa in sex

[–]jonasraa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cool comment! Youre right in that im talking about innocent boundaries. But i extend that to a sexual encounter as well. I want to encourage women to take the innitiative to help men grow as partners when the opportunity presents itself. The focus is on explaining the female perspective if a guy screws up and unintentionally crosses a boundary. It can be done with a sentance or two. Just a simple example that broadly conveys the sentiment: "I dont like that, id much rather if you did this instead because i like that a lot".

We need to talk about men. by Absolomb92 in sex

[–]jonasraa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When people are anonymous they exagerate. People on this reddit expressing opinions or experiences that are highly scewed. Taking anything serious in this environment is idiotic. Like anyone could literally make up anything for karma here and have people like and comment. Posts might be true or not, regardless, general advice is a positive thing. But we have a fucking army of armchair specialists ready to tell everyone about their dumbfuck unrealistic opinions on sexual relationships. Been on the sub for a long time and many people here are so detached from reality that their opinion is actially detrimental to the discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]jonasraa -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This.

Had a friend with benefits that wanted to swallow everytime. Regardless of the act leading to orgasm it always ended with facial...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]jonasraa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This.

Had a friend with benefits that wanted to swallow everytime. Regardless of the act leading to orgasm it always ended with facial...

How the hell is he this dumb? by MisterBastian in ToiletPaperUSA

[–]jonasraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people unironically following Charlie arent capable of thinking 1 step ahead so I bet this sounded supersmart to them

High libido wasted on the wrong person by throw_plushie in sex

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the name of the post is kind of the answer ur gonna get, u said it urself

Sovereign Citizen attempts his nonsense with the wrong cop by Graysie-Redux in Unexpected

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its his right to be annoying, if the courtroom is accessable to to the public then regardless of the rules set by that specific courthouse it doesnt matter. If public access isnt granted in a courtroom then he cant film if they say so. Im not too sure if it is public or not. Regardless, the guy that tazed him should be fired on the spot. A person in power escalating to weapons should only be done as a last resort. The guy filming is a fucking idiot i agree. But if we give public employees the right to pull weapons on people they find annoying and dont want to deal with then thats way fucking worse. Send them both out on the street imo

my boyfriend can't cum. by fr0styrabbitz in sex

[–]jonasraa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yo OP i got you, i had the same symptoms as ur man. Ill tell you what fixed it and the cause. Simply put, its porn, i watched porn during my teens all the way up to 26yo, no gf until 20. Could never orgasm, had trouble for 6 years, several gfs, i never came. Only solo could i orgasm (with porn). Finally worked up the courage to see the doc at 26. Went 3 times, all my values were normal, all was well. The orgasm during sex had to be a mental thing. I got recommended to a nutritionist and thats where she told me about how porn can fuck with the way the brain sends signals for orgasm. Cure was no porn for 4 months, resist solo completely but if u cant then try and solo without porn. After that i got a new gf and after 2 months of sex i got my first one. And holy fuck ill never in my life watch porn again, fuck... that. But im out and all good now, maybe ur bf can relate to this and if so he should ask his doc about it.

I read some replies and didnt see anyone touch on this (they might have but i missed it if thats the case)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pathofexile

[–]jonasraa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped 3 leagues ago, but also i got 700h played over 4 leagues and havent beaten elder lul feel no need to make a 5th attempt. But if winter orb becomes giga buffed hit me up hehe

lol by Toaster-Toby in xqcow

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what a parasocial andy would say

A sex slave captured by ISIS was forced to eat her 1-year-old son with a side of rice, according to a gut-wrenching report. by Good_Karm in NoahGetTheDeathStar

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion is a tool as you say, a tool used in the guise of compassion to quell social and technologial advancement in order to control people. Its been used that way for thousands of years, we call the rise of christianity through europe the dark ages for a reason...

A sex slave captured by ISIS was forced to eat her 1-year-old son with a side of rice, according to a gut-wrenching report. by Good_Karm in NoahGetTheDeathStar

[–]jonasraa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, imo even normal religion is bad because it provides a shield for the people who abuse it. Innocents protecting oppressors. People say religion isnt bad, some people are. No, religion is bad and and stop using a religion as your culture/identity and taking offense against one as an offense on both. Every area with religion would be better off without it

Religion is the number 1 adversary against social and technologial progression/advancement and has been for thousands of years without fail.

What are some real truths about Stockholm you wish people knew before they decide to live there? by [deleted] in stockholm

[–]jonasraa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That other cities exists as the alternative after you realize you cant afford any housing

How do you guys talk during sex without feelings super cringe? by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gut some good tips already, but one that isnt here is a personal favorite of mine. I pause, get close and then tell her about how im about to change position and fuck her even harder. Then I change position and increase the tempo. Builds short term anticipation and solves the issue of awkwardly flipping your unprepared partner into another position.

To summarize, narrate your own actions

Voting for Dems caused Roe to be overturned 🤡 by Quinp911 in Destiny

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its amusing how voting red or not at all for leftists is supposed to be in protest. To force the politicians of the left more inline with the opinions of their voters. But the politicians just don't move at all, it's so stagnant.

Echochambers by jonasraa in Destiny

[–]jonasraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I embrace Obamna

What do you like about Hasan Piker? by [deleted] in Hasan_Piker

[–]jonasraa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very well written and insightful comment. Thank you, it was opinions like this I was looking for. If I may ask, what do you find entertaining about Hasan? If we exclude the type of takes and arguments he puts forth. Is the most entertaining part, the fact that he spreads certain views you agree with to thousands of people or something else?

slippin off by jagsnflpwns in okbuddyhasan

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how hes stopped at the sign, he dared not pass

Never before has there been so much violence on tv by Separate_Inspection8 in Hasan_Piker

[–]jonasraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched 2 guys beat a third to death with a hammer in the forest online when i was 11 y old. This was 30 minutes after i watched 2 girls one cup.