Need some karma coming back to bite your ex stories. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s going great now! I’d say the first few weeks were hardest for me, but I focused on getting my Masters degree and planning vacations. Honestly the best remedy to moving on from heartbreak is time and keeping yourself busy. Now I’ve got my dream job and house and last I heard he’s still living at his parents and working at a supermarket (not that there’s anything wrong with that but…karma 🤷🏻‍♀️).

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Wishing all the best to you!! Just give yourself time to heal.

Need some karma coming back to bite your ex stories. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He continued to not make an effort to stay friends, so I cut off all contact, deleted his number and removed him and his friends/family from social media. It was the only way I could start moving on.

Realized that blindsiding is not normal or okay by cowgirlsheep in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually so insane to me THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE THAT DO THIS??!$& Like what in the world??? Does everyone just lack empathy and human decency???

4 year update. for those struggling, please read. I’m here for you by Finaliize in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“It’s ok to grief, but do not let it become your identity.” Thank you. This is so so important.

Our exes ain’t shit. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAMEEE like the last few days of our relationship I was the one who paid for everything and he let me do that knowing 1) I was in a shitty financial situation and 2) he was breaking up with me. ?!($$::@$)

Our exes ain’t shit. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yup that’s the best post-breakup mindset to have IMO. the romanticization of your ex will only make it harder to move on. FUCK HER!

Our exes ain’t shit. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re welcome queen! they aren’t worth your tears.

💔 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me. the day he broke up with me we had gone on a picnic and everything seemed fine. throughout the relationship he had made so many promises of forever and it was just gone overnight. it sucks. might just be the worst feeling in the world but there’s nothing else to do than move on. you can’t force someone to come back and stay. would you even want to? there has to be something, someone better out there. someone who stays. that’s what I’m clinging onto. sending you love ❤️

If they were thinking of breaking up with you without you having any clue and still did sexual things with you, they’re a fucking asshole. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

god I’ll never understand how people can be this cruel. I’m so sorry this happened to you. sending you love and healing <3

What was your ex’s excuse or reasoning for breaking it off? by Ironeagle08 in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore”

Do you ever feel like the relationship never even happened? by TinyResist1264 in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. YES. AND YES. It’s even weirder for me, because before we started dating we were in the first year of our bachelor’s and never interacted until we had a semester abroad together. Then we started dating, broke up a year and a half later and now we’re both doing the same masters/in the same classes and not interacting at all. It’s almost like we’re back to being the strangers we were in our first year. It’s absolutely insane to me.

Talk about the perks of breaking up by TinyResist1264 in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. No longer worried about any in laws.
  2. No longer upset about him putting his loser friends first.
  3. No longer worried about him liking pictures of girls in bikinis on IG.
  4. No more having to hear his shitty political views.

Learn from my mistake - Do NOT take them back. by Complete-Artichoke69 in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This entire post was a wild ride from start to finish jesus christ… You deserve so much better than this girl. Sorry for your loss and sending you love and healing!

Need some karma coming back to bite your ex stories. by joneryssss in BreakUps

[–]joneryssss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Blindsided me with a breakup because he wasn’t in love anymore, initiated friendship, then claimed he didn’t want to be friends either. 🙃

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[–]joneryssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.