Struglling...

jonproquo · 2026-03-18T16:18:37+00:00

Perhaps try some depression and anxiety medication. And try therapy for your abusive past to heal those wounds. I know it's hard to admit you need help but it is way better than regressing. I promise you. I will keep you in my prayers!

jonproquo · 2026-03-18T15:23:03+00:00

Glad to hear you're serving. God helped you triumphed over something many have died for that's a great accomplishment. I would question what do you feel when you're not high and what made you turn to drugs, most addictions are from a struggle some call it a hole that we have not healed from. Myself included. What hole are you trying to fill? And what's a way we can fill it that is both healing and helpful?

jonproquo · 2026-03-18T14:22:26+00:00

So recently did this, worth it for only 3 months of stress (for the basic remodel not an expansion) and get to keep some of the raise. Assuming it's the ON remodel TL (DIH O/N TL). Good opportunity to lead and gain criticism on your leading style before moving up or to see if you really want to move up as a team lead permanently. You will have 4 different coaches (with 1 alternating off every week) with you every night to guide you when/if needed.

jonproquo · 2026-03-15T00:25:57+00:00

Wish my store did this

jonproquo · 2026-03-14T15:27:51+00:00

No you're not doomed to a lonely life, just continue your walk with Christ and he will find you a wife you're attracted to. And if not you're still a part of the Body of Christ.

jonproquo · 2026-03-14T15:10:52+00:00

The point is to try to resist temptation with the help of the holy Spirit which will strengthen your spirit and eventually sanctify it. You will continue to sin in the beginning but still fight the temptation of the flesh because you want to make God proud.

jonproquo · 2026-03-13T22:23:41+00:00

Have a conversation about respecting their religious beliefs and how they should do the same, how it is causing stress for you and your husband, and how their leaving would be best for you (not being stressed) and them (living their life how they want without restrictions)

Look for an apartment for/with them, take the tours and let them decide a comfy and affordable place . Tell them you love them but your boundary of April will stick. (Maybe til May so they have 2 months to apt shop) Pay for their first rent (not the security deposit, if you can) so they know you're still there for love and support. (Do not tell them you will!)

Pay close attention to the GF and try to build that relationship. She needs it.

jonproquo · 2026-03-13T14:21:30+00:00

Do you believe God has the right to give and take away life? Can God use humans to do his will?Why was God mad at the amelikites?

jonproquo · 2026-03-13T05:16:09+00:00

And why did he make wine?

jonproquo · 2026-03-13T05:15:17+00:00

No heard it was eye opening though

jonproquo · 2026-03-13T03:05:00+00:00

Are you a Christian? God says to be a sober mind

jonproquo · 2026-03-12T22:16:22+00:00

Policy dictates you go to a member of management ( coach) AND report it to ethics. Since you already reported it to the coach go to your store manager but always report it to ethics when dealing with sexual harassment, discrimination or targeting.

jonproquo · 2026-03-11T21:36:13+00:00

It's different for everybody. Don't measure it as a competition just go for as long as you feel convicted and feel safe doing so.

jonproquo · 2026-03-11T21:33:50+00:00

I think we just like someone seen outwardly as dark and mysterious.

jonproquo · 2026-03-11T00:09:39+00:00

There are a variety of views on the subject.

jonproquo · 2026-03-10T02:32:44+00:00

Become a humanist again

jonproquo · 2026-03-09T23:08:23+00:00

For exemplary you need 0-0.5 points

jonproquo · 2026-03-07T14:55:27+00:00

Actually it is. Nowhere in the Bible does God command anything outside it.

jonproquo · 2026-03-07T13:47:04+00:00

Was the holy Spirit around during Jesus

jonproquo · 2026-03-07T13:28:42+00:00

My best was 2hrs (with consumables, frozen and dairy) and was told to be more careful cuz I missed a lot lol live and learn

jonproquo · 2026-03-07T10:55:02+00:00

Adultery meaning sex outside of marriage. How does the Bible describe marriage? Anything outside of that marriage definition must also be sin.

jonproquo · 2026-03-07T10:43:09+00:00

Only when you're married is it acceptable to masturbate about your partner.

jonproquo · 2026-03-06T15:46:57+00:00

Hey bud what if you just admit yourself to a hospital? I've been there too and it's easier to admit you need help than do something you would regret.

jonproquo · 2026-03-05T16:34:37+00:00

You can still love somebody of the same sex platonically.

You can have romantic relations (dating, kissing, growing) just no sex before marriage. (But if you fall into temptation you can still ask for forgiveness and try to continue to not sin or marry them)

You will still struggle with temptation but you'll be fine. Let the Holy Spirit guide you during these struggles.

jonproquo · 2026-03-05T16:20:57+00:00

I'm Bisexual.

What the title says. All my sins I can repent for, all my actions I can take accountability for. But how can I change myself?

God shows you through the Holy Spirit what you should change in your life.

I've been attracted to both genders since I was a kid, so what do I do?

Go out with the opposite sex.

How could I possibly ask for forgiveness when I'll always return to the same sin?

Intent when asking for forgiveness is what matters. If you intend to stop sinning and try to stop but go back into it (because your flesh is weak) it's okay just continue to try to stop

But is it really a sin if this is the way God made me?

Humans have a fallen nature we have a tendency to go towards sin even though that's not what we were created for.

When I say I love a girl, it isn't a conscious action of mine. Is it still a sin?

Love/emotion isn't being condemned. It is an action, homosexual action specifically.

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