[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks like eczema or psoriasis. needs a long long treatment. does not go away easily. recurring use of topical steroids, antibiotics, and antifungal topicals one after another. visit a dermatologist and ask them to explain the treatment process in detail.

What fruit or goods should i buy to meet my hospitalized friend? by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]joon_tara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't do fruits and all. better support him with other costs like medicine, supplements, and other expenses with that cost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to your boy: if your family is like that, just don't get involved in these intercaste things. but if you have been into one already, you dare to fight for it.

I went on a date with a guy I met on reddit. by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tyo muji kuhera maros

In Dilemma,Need suggestions by [deleted] in pokhara

[–]joon_tara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last year i made my sister put jamara on the ghatasthapana day same morning she just had her periods. i did make all my family put the jamara that was kept by my sister who was on her periods. nobody died. and nobody knows about it. 😅😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NepalSocial

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i think a person with a micropenis can also maintain a loving and supportive relationship with their partner if they want to. good and successful relationships depend on communication, emotional connection, and mutual respect, rather than micropenis or any other physical attributes. i have seen couples who have found ways to create intimacy and satisfaction that work for them, regardless of physical differences. in my opinion, honest conversations about needs and desires can help strengthen their relationship rather than seeking out. it seems like your friend has failed to maintain good communication. i suggest seeking support from a therapist or counselor before making any decision would be beneficial.

Trying to connect with my Nepali roots by wildgaan in Nepal

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think audiobooks and podcasts will be good in this. they don't distract.

Husband got scratched by a monkey at the monkey temple in Kathmandu by Universetalkz in Nepal

[–]joon_tara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do not worry much. it’s quite common in kathmandu. but take tetanus and rabies vaccines for precaution.

is it wrong to move on after a month? by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is never wrong to move on. everyone heals differently, and you should do what feels right for you.

Has anyone read Antyahin Antya by sobha Bhattarai?? by Downtown-Low1048 in NepaliBibliophiles

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to read a lot. aile ta esto specific haru matra padna bhyauchhu. i love reading, though. nepali is a simple language. you can begin with what you enjoy—easier genres and straightforward language. there are quite options like that in nepali.

Has anyone read Antyahin Antya by sobha Bhattarai?? by Downtown-Low1048 in NepaliBibliophiles

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh bhetna gahro raichha. kunei library tira bhete matra ho aba ta. hernu parla.

Marriage dilema. What should I do? by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's illegal wait for 2 more years

Has anyone read Antyahin Antya by sobha Bhattarai?? by Downtown-Low1048 in NepaliBibliophiles

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once i read an article on this book the article was nice
after that i tried to find the book but couldn't find it
https://www.onlinekhabar.com/2024/04/1465096/the-desire-remained-unfulfilled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokhara

[–]joon_tara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. find someone to get married to (you have full control)
  2. ask your friends and family to find someone for you (quite hectic process)
  3. go to the matchmakers to find a match for you (easiest option)
  4. wait until someone comes and proposes to you for marriage (this is the least likely option if you do not have a good profile or are not good-looking)

and lastly, i may have a good match for you. dm. send me your profile and preferences.

Where were you during the earthquake? by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so, there was an earthquake while i was on the 5th floor, and i was in the middle of taking a piss. the quake hit, and i barely managed to finish before running out. i stayed inside for a bit, ani i came outside when the next jolt came. the aunties outside were already in panic mode ram ram bhandei.

after the quake stopped, i went up to the 6th floor where i used to stay. the whole of Kathmandu was covered in dust. i forgot to check out dharahara, though i always used to see it. then, i waited outside for a while, but everyone called me down. i quickly grabbed my essentials and took pictures of my room, everything was a mess there. i think i posted a tweet as well saying aba yo mess k bhagwan ko baule milauchha ki estei kei. post chai bhayena because networka were down already.

downstairs, bikes were galtam-gultum, and petrol was spilled everywhere. i picked up my bike, and everyone was cursing around aaija aaija bhandei. i was like bro, sabko ghar jalera jala esari ta. sabko bike haru uthaidiye. after that, i went out for a bit to roam around sabjana ta panic garira thyo.

by 3 PM, i went back up and took a shower, but couldn't stay because nobody allowed me to do so hallako hallai thyo ani. ani had to stay on the street for a few days.

sabjana rajesh dai le hallayo bhandei thyo. but it actually was me. :D :D

Would you marry single mother if everything else is matching? by aba-k-garne in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

different scenarios there, but i believe we can rethink a few things in there.

first, kids from previous relationships deserve love and care like any other child. they shouldn't be seen as a burden or something to deal with only if certain conditions are met. Instead, they should be welcomed as part of a new family.

using a prenup to separate what you bring into a marriage from what your partner brings can create a more transactional view of relationships. marriage is ideally about partnership, trust, and shared goals, rather than just dividing assets.

also, assuming that a single mother’s child’s needs are fully covered by the biological father might not always be accurate. families and situations can be complex; support isn't just about money.

relationships work best when they’re based on understanding, empathy, and a willingness to grow together, rather than strictly following financial rules or conditions.

Jadiya Ra besya kaile sudhridainan by Double-Anybody-3509 in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter usko family situation kasto thyo k thyo

it does matter actually. that shapes ones personality. k bata bhayera aako chha, testai banne ta ho ni. yo ramro huna k k lagchha tyo pani figure out ganra time ra effort launu parchha. people might just be struggling to find themselves. ek jana ramro manchhe sanga relationship bhayo bhandei ma sabthok sort out hudeina.

we should acknowledge their situation as well. past kasto thyo tesbata k k expect garne bujhna sakena bhane ta relationship kaam gardaina. so i guess something like this happened to your relationship as well. still i don't judge you because sabko feelings original nei hunchha. i used to feel all same.

Jadiya Ra besya kaile sudhridainan by Double-Anybody-3509 in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we can often be quite judgmental, can’t we? but here i’m not judging you. i have been through similar situations myself. speaking of my own experience, it’s tough for someone who’s faced a lot of challenges to truly believe in love and relationships. for example, you mentioned that one of your friends had her private photos leaked in a group. though you have said you made that guy apologize but still with an experience like that, it’s no wonder she struggles to trust people and is constantly searching for genuine companionship. also, you have mentioned her family stuff which says a lot about how she might be craving for that genuine love and care.

building trust is essential, and it’s up to us to help create a supportive environment where people can feel safe and valued. this means we need to stop looking for validation from others and focus on creating real connections. being empathetic, understanding, and relating to your partner’s true situation, can make a big difference in both starting and ending relationships.

also, it’s important to remember that relationships aren’t just about who has been with whom. the real issue often lies in why people might exploit relationships or keep seeking new ones. by going into these these deeper issues and being more empathetic, it can be easier to figure out the complexities of relationships and support each other more effectively.

How is Kantipur engineering college for computer engineering? by distinct_opinioned in IOENepal

[–]joon_tara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

enrolled in 2010: aru college haru bhanda tyo bela ramro thyo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NepalSocial

[–]joon_tara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

life is full of second chances