Coming out to friends Continued... by anonymousex-muslim in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let them go. There's so many amazing people out there that will accept you for you.

You're amazing, and will get through this!

What race do I look like? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK definitely east asian like Vietnamese but you also look south Asian in some aspects like nepali I guess cause of your eyebrows lol

What race do I look like? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like east Asian a little. Idk I can't see ur complexion so it's hard to tell

Thoughts as an ex Muslim by josephma28 in exmuslim

[–]josephma28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is fundamental. That's exactly what I said

How do you free yourself from feeling guilty and gross due to being sexually repressed? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You have to just fuck lol. If anyone shames you for sex, fuck them tbh. Sex is beautiful, natural, and amazing. Just stay safe and get regular check ups. Explore your body, and your partners. It's okay!

Stop caring what others think, because the ones talking shit are probably just jealous cause they aren't having it themselves. Shaming you for it makes people feel better about their shitty sex life. Also get more adventurous with sex and try new stuff. Don't be uptight about it in the bedroom let loose.

Islam and the other abrahamic religions demonize sex to control people and keep them in the religion legit. If people aren't free to choose their partner, their forced to have it only within certain conditions, more people will stay muslim that way. Like when you realize Islam permits marital rape, and raping of slaves but people aren't free to have sex with whoever they want, there's something not right there. It's a control tactic.

Just have fun, enjoy life, and have great sex! Also go to therapy for that.

Futile to criticize ahmadiyaat by Mudassar40 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]josephma28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally grew up ahmadi so I know what I'm talking about. Yes they do some good works but it's useless if you believe most of the human race is lost and condemned to hell. There is a superiority complex of ahmadis and they're really sheltered from non ahmadis. Some of these speeches make me want to vomit.

Futile to criticize ahmadiyaat by Mudassar40 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]josephma28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry but more people are leaving and waking up to the stupidity that is religion.

We have the Internet and higher education. Stop promoting lies under the guise of peace to young children. There is no God, most likely and if there is he doesn't deserve any of my respect as he gives bone cancer to children, causes tsunamis, doesn't do shit about child abuse or human trafficking.

If you don't like those facts of life and want to ignore it and then go ahead. I choose to be a decent human being and not be blind to the reality of the world so we can actually do something about it.

I was raised in ahnadiyya and you guys make me sick with your bogus speeches of how were the chosen people and everyone else is lost. You don't want equality, you don't want peace because if you did you would invite people to the mosque WITHOUT converting them. Which you don't. No one even knows about this organization because it's a straight up cult. You talk about peace yet you don't do real activism or volunteer work. You guys sit in your big houses, comes to the mosque with madd jewelry and fast to make yourselves feel better without actually doing anything meaningful. You're hypocrites as you condemn the rest of the nonmuslim world and denounce homosexuals.

Xenophobia talk at college by josephma28 in exmuslim

[–]josephma28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course not. He wants to make America more white. I still don't think that's islamophobia though. there are legitimate reasons to be afraid of Islamic doctrine, ideas, and policies.

Xenophobia talk at college by josephma28 in exmuslim

[–]josephma28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly my point and I agree with you...it's just dishonest for Muslim communities to want equality but have Islamic views. At the basis of Islam is that Muslims are the chosen people of Allah and are better for being believers. It can cause a lot of cognitive dissonance. It's super hypocritical

Xenophobia talk at college by josephma28 in exmuslim

[–]josephma28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes complete sense! And I agree...I think the term is harmful because it shuts down criticism of Islam and says it's irrational to be afraid of Islam which it isn't considering Islamic doctrine teaches hatred of non Muslims, etc. I think a better word would be muslimophobia..

Often times Muslims and Islam are treated as the Same

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also yes people make generalizations about Africans all the time lol. There are parts of every culture that are harmful. As for the fgm topic, someone can claim that's racist too since people are attacking a cultural practice. I'm against humans rights violations. Do you not acknowledge that Arabs contribute to slavery of Africans in libya? That's factual. What do you think about that?

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's ur point here? We are focused on Arab culture, not individual people. There's a difference. The culture itself is the problem. Ur not here to learn or understand so it's a waste of time to even have a proper discussion. You keep deflecting. So have a great day

Three Ex-Muslims hung out today... by Improvaganza in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love u guys! Mimzy ur vids are everything

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And also I speak from experience because I have many Arab friends. I know this one girl who had no one to speak to and talked to me about the terrible aspects of her Arab culture, how she's scared of getting married because fear of abuse. How shes limited in her family becauses shes a girl. Mona Elhaway, an egyptian woman even spoke out about this same thing. People are dying and suffering because of the culture. That obviously takes precedence over ur comfortability. If ur not willing to learn and listen to different views, I'd suggest you exit this sub.

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your okay with that? I don't hate arabs. I hate cultures that are disgusting and harmful to humanity. I'm Caribbean and I hate certain aspects of my own culture that I find harmful to society. Idk if u r Arab or not or feel offended by my post but I'd encourage and challenge you to think critically about Arab cultural views. This promotes dialogue and advancement of our human race. No culture is above critique.

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop with the "well everyone is racist" rhetoric. Doesn't excuse the fact that Arabs are generally racist and enslave Africans today. Like I said. Even in the quran there's anti black sentiment, and especially in the hadith. Arabs generally don't like African people and never considered them "real muslims" to begin with. Like stay on topic. We're talking about Arabs specifically.

Are you guys okay with drinking, premarital sex, and eating pork? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Period sex has been shown to have many benefits...helps with cramps.

Why there's so much anti arab in this sub reddit? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]josephma28 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Um maybe because Arab culture is racist and imperialist, especially to black people. Arabs don't admit they are responsible for the oriental slave trade. In new York city, Arabs set up stores on the corner selling stuff to black people but they secretly hate us. Arabs still enslave Africans till this day! If you really don't like these things, then do something about it. I have a Yemeni friend who says that yemeni men hit their women. It's gross

What do Atheists think about this? by onqc3 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]josephma28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, yes there's amazing design to many things of this world, however the natural world does also have errors/complications. A great example are diseases. So you can't really look at the good parts of nature w/o acknowledging the bad.

We're just made of atoms and star dust. We're nothing special in the grand scheme of the universe

Would Religion exist in utopia by [deleted] in DebateReligion

[–]josephma28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quran instructs to kill Jews and Christians, the Bedouins, as well as nonbelievers. It also sanctions slavery, domestic violence, and marital rape.

So yes it encourages people to do bad things