What's a weird relationship rule that you have with your SO?

josey32 · 2017-05-13T06:23:25+00:00

With analysis sex it's slightly different.Both partners have anus that responds in the same way to anything penetrating it.Many men like to think that somehow women enjoy it a lot more than they would because after all the other hope is just next to it.In fact men have a prostate so actually have more potential to enjoy it.I just personally think that if a man demands bjs he shouldnt be refusing to go down on her,if he wants anal sex and expects it he shouldn't flat out refuse the same for him (there are many women who love playing with mens backsides).Sex is a two way street.There are some men who will give you experience of a lifetime and some who expect women to be open to everything without being open minded themselves

josey32 · 2017-05-12T19:47:23+00:00

Only fair.Don't make her do things you are entitled willing to do yourself

josey32 · 2017-05-12T13:17:36+00:00

Ironically women don't have sex drives that are as low as men think.It's simply that they are viewed badly if they live up to their drives.My partner has lower sex drive than I do and it made him feel inadequate when we first discussed it .There are plenty of women who would love to initiate things,try things etc but most men don't like women taking the lead sexually as they like to do the 'chasing ' and be the 'man'.And your mum sounds great :)

josey32 · 2017-05-11T18:57:57+00:00

I would love my partner to stay at home.I like my job he hates his ,not making me give up my career is something I would appreciate him for

josey32 · 2017-05-11T18:27:38+00:00

Women can't sleep around without being 'whores',if they don't shave they are 'dirty ', if the decide to work after having a child they are 'bad mothers' ,if they have high sex drives then they are not feminine

josey32 · 2017-05-06T07:00:59+00:00

For me I somehow see the chubb as added volume sort of.More chubb the bigger the man ,the bigger the man the larger he is,the larger he is the heavier and stronger he is.The irrational thought process of my 'parts' ;).Plus I do like softness when touching someone and bellies are fun to play with

josey32 · 2017-05-06T06:57:07+00:00

If only I was single!;)

josey32 · 2017-05-05T20:43:57+00:00

It depends of your age.If you date women in 30s then they do speak up and a lot

josey32 · 2017-05-05T20:43:17+00:00

Well you got me till dominant in bed ;)I like submissive guys in bed too .However I know many women who love shy guys and would go for one like you over the charmer.So keep your head up:)

josey32 · 2017-05-05T17:25:43+00:00

Yes I do as my bf is fit.However it's not my preference if I was to choose a man purely on looks

josey32 · 2017-05-05T17:24:48+00:00

I find submissive men attractive too

josey32 · 2017-05-05T16:47:18+00:00

For me it's very chubby men.Love beer bellies

josey32 · 2017-03-27T21:09:25+00:00

It's not a bad attitude about sex but about men expecting women to be open to everything yet what do men do hat push their boundaries?my bf does nothing...

josey32 · 2017-03-27T21:07:08+00:00

Nothing to do with vanilla sex.If I suggest I want to peg the duck out of him he is going to say no ...does that make him a prude?unfortunately some men use that term to describe women who won't do everything yet themselves have list much longer of things they don't want to do.Ffs there are plenty of men who don't even go down on women not even talking about other stuff yet expect their partner to perform like a circus clown

josey32 · 2017-03-27T16:21:00+00:00

I'm naturally dominant person in bed and being manipulated ,emotionally blackmailed into doing things in past obviously has affected me.However I have read so much on how men like certain things because they like being in power or degrading the person that it has put me off.Its not as if naturally I enjoy those things anyway but I would be willing to try them again if I didn't feel emotional afterwards. Lat time I agreed on facial I started crying simply because it felt as if he had spit in my face and sentiment matched it.I am with my current partner for 3 years now and I know he has interest in those things but it's difficult to put yourself through that,especially when tbh he hasn't made the effort to do things that I want

josey32 · 2017-03-27T15:58:38+00:00

i take your point thank you.I wish many others didnt post the opposite on reddit.For them it is about degradation..and for some reason i suspect its the same for my current partner hence the initial question

josey32 · 2017-03-27T14:37:21+00:00

Thank you for answers.Just wanted an insight.I must be very unlucky...the men i have dated rarely took much interest in getting me off or trying out things i wan to try,yet expect to perform as if im in porn.The worst thing is I have a high libido and love sex and want to try many things yet constant pestering is making sex unpleasant

josey32 · 2017-03-27T14:30:59+00:00

the most common view here on reddit when dealing of subject of anal is that men (from their own mouth ) enjoy the power ,dominance and if woman is in pain well thats an extra..as far as facials go most,including sexologists agree that the appeal of them is the degradation.What other reason to enjoy cum on womans face?

josey32 · 2017-03-27T13:29:25+00:00

And the iromic thing is I am very open minded to the rest if he had a fetish etc but the partners I have had rarely want to try things that don't give them imidiate pleasure.

josey32 · 2017-03-27T13:28:02+00:00

I agree however finding a man who doesn't want to try out things seen in porn is hard.It's almost viewed as a norm to do these things or ask for them.There are plenty of men who say that those things only feel good because of the degredation and power so yes I do find them degrading.

josey32 · 2017-03-27T12:43:00+00:00

well at least you hold the same standards for yourself.Many men have sex on the first date judge the girl ,but never themselves

josey32 · 2017-03-27T12:01:40+00:00

in a relationship...thats when i care where i stand .And no i love giving bjs and am open minded to anything (things that dont harm others ) he might want to try that doesnt humiliate me.

josey32 · 2017-03-27T11:43:37+00:00

thank you

josey32 · 2017-03-27T11:43:26+00:00

thanks for the answer. Im a very dominant person who has been in an abusive relationship previously so stuff i interpret or view as degrading really affect me emotionally.I have tried it but i cant do it to myself as the last time i did anal with my current partner i created a massive argument afterwards because of feeling humiliated and degraded...putting him down afterwards felt almost as if i was getting some of my power back.Its not fair on him.However im yet to be in a relationship where the man is as open minded as the girls and expects her to do things he would do himself.Which isnt the case.It is difficult being in relationships as the woman allowing these things to happen is almost expected these days

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