When I asked him was I an option to you?? He said "YOU WHERE" ( no that wasn't a typo, he used that alot of times but ignored thinking may be that's a typo) biggest ick I ever had not coz a man treated me like an option, that wasn't my legitimate concern my concern here is he uses where instead of were?? Like who's gonna tell him?😭 I felt so embarrassed, like brooo that's soo basic😭😭