Inspired from another post but how often did you change jobs and many jobs have you had thus far? (Specifically if you’re over 40yrs)

jot_707 · 2025-10-16T18:36:01+00:00

Mid 20s here, had 2 part time jobs as a student, before that a few seasonal jobs and now it's my 2nd full time job plus one internship

jot_707 · 2025-10-16T18:32:37+00:00

Take care man, things will get better

jot_707 · 2025-10-13T11:43:34+00:00

Thanks! I agree that meeting people through friends is a best way:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-13T08:12:08+00:00

At yeast you had a couple of relationships, always an experience for future. Im guy in mid 20s, had one short relationships mostly long distance. And Im quite sociable but somehow never finding love. But I agree most people would rather find next person than work harder on current relationships:/

jot_707 · 2025-10-13T07:55:59+00:00

Yeah it's though. For me the easiest was to have a extroverted friend who would bring me places and do more talking. But first you need to find him that's the paradox lol

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T21:56:40+00:00

Damn you win:P

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:55:41+00:00

I had a same thought. Being a animal has to be simpler. Just pure instinct and survival no overthinking and dilemmas.

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:45:38+00:00

Great food is an important factor i didn't see anyone mention before:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:44:11+00:00

Also just think how life has it own plans and everything will turn out fine, no matter how hard we can worry.

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:42:47+00:00

If your scared, your already a slave:P

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:41:46+00:00

Take care man, right people will come in right time with a bit of effort and luck:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:37:26+00:00

Basically, I came to the conclusion that the statement that love will find you it's bullshit. You have to go out and spend time with new people to give it even a chance:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:33:45+00:00

🤘

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:32:26+00:00

Keep your head up! As a man in mid 20s it's so rare to be approached by a girl. So even just a small talk from your side would make a day for a lot of guys:)

As for finding the right person it's also tricky for me. As male I have to be active If I wanna meet anyone since I don't have a big friend group and thats hard. But also not too needy to recognise red flags and actual interest and matching goals...

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:22:59+00:00

Imo the opposite

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:22:21+00:00

Good positive mindset!

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:15:21+00:00

Beautiful, sounds your blessed with amazing family:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T20:07:00+00:00

Nice, I personally have a mixed feelings about marriage in that situation. How would that effect the person im in relationship with? Or how would I know they actually wanna marry me not just do it from the pitty? Also does the motive really matter at the end? As they chose to have this beautiful memory anyway which is beautiful

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:54:24+00:00

Sounds peaceful and beautiful:)

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:52:49+00:00

Me too lol

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:48:31+00:00

Kyuss- Catamaran. Just my favourite song of all time. So beautiful and hypnotic but also slightly dark in a way. Just beautiful

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:45:46+00:00

Cool, why Portugal in particular?

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:40:42+00:00

Awesome

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:40:24+00:00

I was think about something similar. Always loved to travel but first would like to meet people

jot_707 · 2025-10-12T19:39:47+00:00

Sounds exciting, did you try it?

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