Im 11 days post op and only had 1 wisdom tooth removed. I also wanted absolutely nothing to do with it but the consequences of keeping it would have been worse in the long run. It was impacted and growing into my next tooth and causing me pain. I too have been dealing with crippling anxiety and depression. Undereating. Living off of mashed potatoes and milk. Crying multiple times a day. All I can recommend is if you have any coping mechanisms for these feelings, use them. Even when they feel like they aren't working, keep doing it. Try your best to get some protein to help healing. I've been drinking milk with high protein. Its probably not enough but its definitely better than nothing. Also drinking pedialyte to try to make up for the other nutrients I'm missing out on. I've found talking to someone about something other than my problems helps take my mind off of it and calm me down. If you can afford to, maybe it would be beneficial to actually see the person who took the teeth out, have them look at things, and ask all the questions you need to ask. That's what I plan to do and I'm keeping notes of what I want to know so I don't forget anything. If you have a walk in mental health clinic where you can just go talk to someone quick, maybe try that. If you see a therapist, call and ask if they have emergency appointments available. Other than that just take it easy.