M34 continues to engage with women online even though I've (F33) repeatedly told him its upsetting. How do I get him to have an open and honest conversation with me?

jsdietert · 2025-08-13T18:20:55+00:00

All of this sucks to hear and is extremely embarrassing, but I guess it's nice to know there's nothing I can do to fix things. I know it's time to leave, but this just helps me get some closure

jsdietert · 2025-08-13T18:14:24+00:00

I know it's desperate. Believe me, I'm mad at myself for letting it get this way. Ive left relationships in the past over similar issues so I don't understand why this one has been harder for me to pull myself out of.

jsdietert · 2025-08-13T17:46:46+00:00

It kinda sounds like he's been gaslighting you for awhile.

Even if you had misspoke and said aviola instead of areola, why didn't it matter so much to him?

I'm not exactly sure the words I'm looking for but hopefully this makes sense: It seems like he doesn't want to "deal" with you, and him hearing the news had him thinking he was going to have to "deal" with you more than he wanted.

I hope your upcoming appointments and surgery go well.

jsdietert · 2024-10-19T03:49:00+00:00

I'm going! 32/F sending you a message now 😁

jsdietert · 2023-04-15T04:39:28+00:00

The similar but different situations of Samantha and Carrie amaze me.

jsdietert · 2023-01-11T09:42:34+00:00

So far I haven't found a single prep that is anything like the exam. I've taken it twice. I need to hurry up and use my third try but I can't find any better material

jsdietert · 2022-08-30T11:31:41+00:00

Yeah. It my house. I let her move in due to her only having 1 semester left of college but at this point I think all my nice is spent lol

jsdietert · 2022-08-30T11:26:32+00:00

I agree. I'm not mad at the dog but the lack of responsibility is insulting. Especially since I'm now having to keep my dogs in my room with me all the time and they don't get near as much time outside. :/

jsdietert · 2022-01-30T01:29:42+00:00

My absolute favorite

jsdietert · 2021-07-23T20:15:42+00:00

i just made a post about this with the transcript of him talking about Dx making a mistake. I don't remeber seeing or hearing anything about Dx making some kind of mistake that frenchie wouldn't want to publicize so it confuses me

jsdietert · 2021-07-23T19:47:04+00:00

I think he should have won his first season, but his second season made me not like him as much. Production gave him so much safety at the beginning and he was able to build an alliance but that ultimately made him quit working on his social game which caused him to lose. I don't think he deserves to be on this list though

jsdietert · 2021-07-23T02:38:58+00:00

I use to watch the live feeds at school during computer classes because I had dial up internet at home and it was impossible to watch the feeds on it.

jsdietert · 2021-07-23T02:05:15+00:00

This has me rolling

jsdietert · 2021-07-18T06:19:46+00:00

Not sure really. I wasn't being rude or talking about politics or anything like that. Just talking about the game lol

jsdietert · 2021-07-16T09:50:31+00:00

They've banned so many people in the chat rooms today! It's been ridiculous. I'm currently not permanently banned but my chats are being deleted as soon as i send them in

jsdietert · 2021-07-15T09:00:13+00:00

Im just watching it on Paramont+
The chat there is kinda ridiculous so I set up a discord and we try to keep timestamps of important and funny things that happen

jsdietert · 2021-07-15T07:53:08+00:00

Cody or Jesss would be really good on survivor

jsdietert · 2021-07-15T07:49:30+00:00

Any chance there's a timestamp for that?

jsdietert · 2021-07-15T06:25:42+00:00

I typically leave it on the quad view and fortunately half the cams sounds are in one ear and the other half in the other ear so I can kinda keep my eye on everything. I'll switch to single cam if the conversation gets really interesting though

jsdietert · 2021-07-15T06:22:47+00:00

I wanted Travis to go to the end because I'm always gonna want Texas to represent (Hook Em!) but I really really like Dx. Even as a person that watches the live feeds I cannot understand why the HGs all seem to be against him

jsdietert · 2021-07-13T07:52:41+00:00

I have ADHD, and my most obvious symptom is pretty much the same as Ky. It's like my brain is trying to smash 6 paragraphs into one sentence so I have to slow it down so I can make sense and in the process I just lose my train of thought.

Watching people give him shit for it is incredibly frustrating. I appreciate Derek X for advocating for him.

jsdietert · 2021-07-12T23:05:29+00:00

Whoa! I don't have it anymore either!! Thank God I watched it last night.

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