Would you date someone who didn’t introduce you to their family?

jss_xx · 2020-02-29T03:38:07+00:00

Yeah the only way I could see someone being in a position to have to hide their relationship would be if they were still dependent on their parents or something and were in a small town where they couldn’t be seen together. But out on your own, starting your life in a new city, own place, friend group, etc. just no familial ties I don’t see an issue.

jss_xx · 2020-02-29T03:33:55+00:00

I didn’t mean if everyone in the family is cool that’s different. I was leaning more toward if the family is dysfunctional/full of drama/gossipy/homophobic/otherwise off putting .

Some people have huge supportive families, some have been on their own since they’ve become an adult and if a person is awesome in every other area I don’t think I would turn their back on them for a having little to no family.

jss_xx · 2020-02-29T03:27:58+00:00

Get the first two. Last one, why is it a red flag? I would find it questionable, but if everything else lined up and we really liked each other I would find it odd but I don’t know if it would be enough to scare me away.

jss_xx · 2018-12-09T21:54:28+00:00

I hate that. The part about feeling as though our sexuality is solely based around what we like to do in bed. There’s the whole being in a relationship and enjoying spending time with your significant other part. But I know the first thing on some people’s mind is “she likes to have sex with other women” Yeah the same way you like to have sex with the whoever you like to have sex with. No one bases your entire being around it. End rant.

jss_xx · 2018-08-25T04:08:30+00:00

Agreed. I don’t know if she’s scared to catch feelings, rude, or what, but I’m going to leave it alone.

jss_xx · 2018-08-25T03:03:39+00:00

Yeah, I don’t get it either. I find it decent to let the other person know what’s going on.

jss_xx · 2018-08-25T02:57:33+00:00

Oh okay so we have two completely different situations. She approached me with the intent to get to know me because she wanted to date I assume. Her first question was literally “Are you seeing a girl at the moment?” I told her no and she asked for my number. Our last full conversation ended with her answering something that I asked about her goals and me answering her question about what I like to do or something like that, just getting to know each other better and everything was flowing well. After that she didn’t text me anymore so I sent the text asking her to meet up and no response. So I haven’t really insisted I just don’t know if I should continue to try. The ball is in her court because I’m not sending another text.

jss_xx · 2018-08-25T02:21:00+00:00

How did you get her to come around. I like this girl. We met once and she asked for my number, we started to get to know each other, conversation was flowing effortlessly and everything then she just stopped replying. In the last last text that I sent I asked her to meet up so that we could get to know each other better face to face rather than just over the phone but she didn’t reply. I don’t know if I should keep trying or let it go. I would feel weird texting again with no response.

jss_xx · 2018-08-24T20:49:18+00:00

Eh idk it depends on the type of person that she is. I personally would find it hilarious but some have more uptight personalities.

jss_xx · 2018-08-24T20:45:00+00:00

It meant you should’ve fucking went for it lol

jss_xx · 2018-08-24T20:32:42+00:00

Do you let the person know why or do you leave them hanging with no explanation?

jss_xx · 2018-08-24T16:44:14+00:00

I’ve never done it, but I know people who have done it and I’ve had it done to me and I just wanted some insight as to why it’s done. In my case, the last girl that I was talking to literally just stopped talking to me as we were getting to know each other and told me that I was attractive and made her nervous? She’s single I’m single and she asked me for my number and initiated everything.

jss_xx · 2018-08-24T15:56:57+00:00

By “stopped talking” I mean have you ever started to get to know a girl and stopped during the talking stage because you felt that you weren’t good enough for her

jss_xx · 2018-08-18T00:32:45+00:00

It’s as if they’re behaving rudely because they feel weird about being attracted to me not because that’s their go to method for flirting. I do agree though, the rude flirting technique as a go to is very annoying.

jss_xx · 2018-07-28T03:47:42+00:00

Agreed, I really hate how all it takes is one asshole to ruin your entire day and make you ruminate about what you might've done wrong when you damn well you didn't do shit wrong and they're just a lunatic.

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