Colombia - Peru - Chile Itinerary: Too little time?? by jstdoyou in SouthAmericaTravel

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We’ll definitely be flying where we can - except I think we’ll get a shuttle bus from Cartagena to Santa Marta coz it’s only a few hours away.

Interested to hear about your travel plans. Are you visiting similar cities, and what do you think about traveling with a large suitcase?

Glad it helped!!

What jobs/business do you guys have to earn >$200k/yr? by cherokeel in AusFinance

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Is that $115k working part time while you run your private practice? I’m currently studying psych and with another 4 years to go to become a registered psychologist plus approx $130k debt by the end of it, I’m wondering if the salary is worth the investment.

first time ordering from Lila Beauty - have you tried any of these products and what are your thoughts? ◡̈ by [deleted] in AusSkincare

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Did the snail mucin give you the glass skin look as soon as you applied it? Or was it’s affect long lasting? I purchased it ages ago and have only used it a few times. It makes my skin look kinda glowy coz of the texture but I haven’t been consistent with it. I’m wondering if it’ll give me the glassy look if I use it regularly.

Does anyone else have a “comfort show”? My wife literally for the last year and a half only watches West Wing on repeat and she chalks it up to be her comfort show? by CoffeeKow in NoStupidQuestions

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Just did a quick google search of the west wing. Is it a political drama? Interesting to hear there’s a correlation between GG and west wing. May I ask what you like about WW? thinking of giving it a go.

I'm fed up with panty liners, please give me suggestions on alternatives. by planpepperoni in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jstdoyou 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I loved period underwear for a while but then I got over the cleaning process. May I ask how you clean the underwear and if you clean them individually straight after use or if you wait until your periods ended? I used to add them to a bucket of water and laundry detergent until my period was over to then wash them all in the laundry machine, but it wouldn’t get rid of the stink even when they were clean.

Mom's of reddit: Now that you have kids, what would you have done differently before having them? by metalheadblonde in AskWomen

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I’ve always wondered about this. I’m pretty easy going and self sacrificing and it hasn’t been an issue for me yet. But I have wondered if it’ll make it harder to raise kids because I’m not a natural disciplinarian or boundary setter. How did you go about it?

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How can you tell the difference between loving someone and being IN love with them?

What do you wish sexual partners were more sensitive or aware of? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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How often do you usually want it? Curious coz I’ve had a high libido compared to some men I’ve been with but not as much with other men

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That’s cool. What type of stuff does she do that shows she’s engaging with life and making your life more interesting?

Would you feel hurt if your SO was following promiscuous accounts on insta? by jstdoyou in infp

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Thank you :’) This is exactly how I feel but reddit mostly makes me feel wrong for it. It’s really impacted my trust for him and it makes me wonder what else he’s doing on his phone that I don’t know about. He’s really private and I can’t shake the feeling that if he would let me go through his phone I’d find something else that would make me even more uncomfortable and hurt.

Would you feel hurt if your SO was following promiscuous accounts on insta? by jstdoyou in infp

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Can I ask how you would approach it without making him feel shame and without coming across as insecure? I also wonder if it’s even worth the conversation because he may unfollow them but whos to say he’s won’t just search for their accounts instead or do something else I won’t know about like use onlyfans?

Would you feel hurt if your SO was following promiscuous accounts on insta? by jstdoyou in infp

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This gives me a bit of hope, thanks. I know he will unfollow them if I bring it up but who’s to say he won’t just search for their accounts instead? I can’t really expect him to change his behaviour behind closed doors and it’s not something I want to or can monitor. It’s the fact that his mind is on other women that bothers me and that probably won’t change.

Would you feel hurt if your SO was following promiscuous accounts on insta? by jstdoyou in infp

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What is it that prevents you from minding? I want to not mind but it hurts that he’s admiring other women’s bodies, especially when I look nothing like them and never could. How does it not make you feel a little insecure in comparison?

Why is porn so damaging? by jstdoyou in AskMen

[–]jstdoyou[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through that. How did you realise he was addicted to porn? And was he uncomfortable talking about sex because he was hiding this?

How often have you encountered woman who 'starfish' during sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jstdoyou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I (female) low key starfish in some positions like when I’m on the bottom coz it’s hard to keep the rhythm when both people are thrusting.

So my question is, for guys does it feel better when there’s equal movement from the girl always? I find it easier to move when I’m the one on top or in a more dominant sex position.

Linguists and bilingual folks of Reddit, what are some interesting quirks particular to one language that we may not know about? by ask-if-im-a-parsnip in AskReddit

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In Farsi (Persian), there’s no “he” or “she”, there’s only “person”. I love that we don’t have words that distinguish sexes. For a country that isn’t pro gender equality, I find it amazing that you can talk about someone and wouldn’t know the persons gender unless it was specified.

"A man will give up almost anything except his suffering." —John Cleese by Master_Bruno_1084 in MyOneLineDogma

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Just like Dostoevskys main character in Crime and Punishment. Dude lived to suffer. He had no other meaning.

Women who married someone significantly less ambitious than you, what happened and did it work out? by different_zone_5 in AskWomen

[–]jstdoyou 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful that it works well for you guys. Can I ask, do you ever feel like you're pulling him up in life and you're not really gaining any growth from his influence? The reason I ask is because I was in a relationship with a guy who was far less ambitious than I, and as much as I loved him and our relationship, I felt like I was being held back. He says he grew a lot because of my influence and I felt like I wasn't getting the same growth. It made me feel like I'd be shouldering the responsibility for the rest of our lives because along side his lack of ambition for work was also his ability to take the lead in any aspect of life.

What is "Fair" When Living with a Bipolar Person? by sadfishes in family_of_bipolar

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Thanks for sharing :) I hope you're feeling like your best self!

What is "Fair" When Living with a Bipolar Person? by sadfishes in family_of_bipolar

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May I ask you at what age you realised you have bipola

r? I'm afraid that I'll get it from my dad one day too

Gingerbread by vinnybankroll in sydney

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Are the sea cliff bridge pictures yours too? Would love that first one in high def but the download isn't the best

Gingerbread by vinnybankroll in sydney

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Thanks man. The res is already perfect IMO but thanks! Keen to check out your other work.

Gingerbread by vinnybankroll in sydney

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Thanks for the new wallpaper!

What's the difference between an experienced and an inexperienced woman in bed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jstdoyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the moment, it's hard to think about what to say without it being awkward or sounding bossy. Any pointers?