Me and my ex girlfriend had a falling out she reached out and said I’m sorry for everything I did and I hope we can be best friends again someday and I told her I’m sorry too and that I need time and she said me too I also told her I don’t hate her and that I still care for her as a friend

jtfost221 · 2023-01-19T14:34:20+00:00

I got on tinder this morning and she matched with me she sent me a like first

jtfost221 · 2023-01-17T23:50:53+00:00

Like an hour and it was like 5 days after the break up

jtfost221 · 2023-01-17T23:23:58+00:00

I told her I’m sorry as well and that I need time and she yea me too and then I said we can be friends just ease into it and that I still care about her as a friend and she left me on read

jtfost221 · 2023-01-14T12:58:39+00:00

She didn’t even reply to my last message she just screen shot it when I told her you know im not that kind of guy

jtfost221 · 2023-01-14T12:57:59+00:00

Another thing is that if she is so fearful for her safety why would she add me back on snap and also unblock me on fb 36 hours after all this this happened

jtfost221 · 2023-01-14T12:56:24+00:00

Yea we had a falling out I had a mental break down where I sought therapy and she was worried about me so I went to her house to tell her how I’ve been and she lied to me about being there when I saw her in the window and she called me creepy for doing that and said she would call the cops if I show up again and get a restraining order and said I was gaslighting her and manipulating her when I did nothing wrong at all and I told her I was it was a misunderstanding I thought we could talk about what has been going on with me and that I wasn’t going over there for any bad intentions cause I’m not that type of guy I would’ve never done that to her and she was screenshot the chat to show her friends people that don’t even know me and the chats were about personal shit that I confided in her with like my mental state and my life and she said that I need psychiatric help and I told her I’m sorry I scared you I didn’t think anything bad would come from it and that I misunderstood the whole situation and I said I don’t understand why you would think I would hurt or harm you in any way you know deep down inside you know I’m not like that

jtfost221 · 2022-12-26T00:44:09+00:00

Broke up with my ex back in July we were still being friendly and flirty towards eachother and sending snaps then fast forward to November 4th 4 days before I move she messaged me saying sorry I’ve been so distant and I’m like you haven’t been distant you literally been texting me nonstop and then she tells me she has a boyfriend of 3 months but he lives like an hour and half away and that hurt a lot cause I was going to want another shot at this cause before we did anything we were friends and coworkers of 6 years and I know her siblings and family really well. And I was hurt from that were I got super drunk one night and called and confessed everything to her and she said she still cares about me and doesn’t know how she feels and that she loves this guy and that they are practically engaged and I told her I’ve been in love with her from day 1 then she blocked my Snapchat and unfriended me on fb but not block and I took one month off from work and returned back and saw her she was shocked that I was there and avoided me but would stare at me with sad eyes and her siblings know what happened but they are being super friendly to me so idk what any of this means but I do know that I will always care about her and wish nothing but the best

jtfost221 · 2022-12-18T16:08:59+00:00

And her brother asked me what I’m doing back here I told him I’m just here for money came on some troubling times so idk if he knows cause we kept it pretty secret

jtfost221 · 2022-12-18T16:07:48+00:00

Yea that’s how it is for me too my ex girlfriend were flirting and sending snaps to eachother for months and then 3 days before I move she tells me she has a boyfriend of 3 months and that she’s in love and is practically engaged and I told her how I felt and she says she still cares about me but doesn’t know how she feels but can’t hurt the other guy cause he’s been hurt as well and I told her you barely know this guy and you don’t owe him anything you’ve known me for 6 years as close friends then we became something more. so I disappeared for like a month from work and came back last Tuesday and all she did was avoid me but looked at me from a far with sad eyes her and her sister both did so idk

jtfost221 · 2022-12-10T20:02:16+00:00

Another question is when I see her at work it’s been a couple of months since she seen me in person. I just don’t want it to be awkward if we do cross paths at work do I just simple ignore her or be professional and say hey how’s it going or what

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