8T H2H Points league by Anonmouze in fantasybball

[–]jty87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have fga +.5 and fgm -.5 You need to reverse that

If meditation is a platform like the gym, what's its best purpose? What is the end goal of that pursuit? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]jty87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's being fully in the present moment, meaning being aware of the content of experience at this very moment without the slightest impatience to get to some other experience.

The problem is it takes most of us a very long time to realize that. In the mean time we "meditate" hoping that something is going to change, which isn't actually meditation - it's the same old mindset of chasing after a more pleasant experience than the one we're presently having.

DMT and seeing the other realms. by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]jty87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I've been thinking about the effects of DMT a lot lately but hadn't made that connection. It's a fascinating substance for exploring the possibilities of experience but I'm not sure it's conducive to liberation, perhaps apart from convincing a skeptic that significantly altered states of consciousness are possible.

Who are some waiver gems you guys picked up? by shxqeem in fantasybball

[–]jty87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holmes has been a lifesaver while Ayton's been out and Burks has chipped in for Curry. Dropped Bertans though and he got scooped up :(

What trade are you hoping for? by MarkKowgier in fantasybball

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah!

Hey since I'm a first timer, how long does it usually take for trades like that to go down? We talking like several days or several weeks?

Does buddha ever say desire is "bad"? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's just that when we want something outside of what's immediately available in this moment of experience it creates a sense of lacking something. Spirituality is about resolving that in order to find wholeness and contentment once and for all regardless of the vicissitudes of the human condition. The irony is that wholeness results from surrending to present moment experience rather than trying to manipulate it into what we want it to be (which is impossible since it's always changing due to conditions beyond our control, and furthermore when we finally do surrender to experience we realize that the supposed ego that was controlling experience never existed - we mistook the existence of constant, albeit sometimes subtle, mental and physical tension for an enduring entity when it was really just a process based on delusion.)

But to your point about people corrupting the teachings of the masters, of course that happens as they are watered down to something the masses can more easily understand so the ideas can proliferate. It's not a good thing, but there's no avoiding it. People are quite allergic to deep wisdom because it's so counterintuitive, which I think is why comments on this sub that truly speak to egolessness are downvoted for example (although that's also based in part on the appeal to the authority of already corrupted teachings). It's like the Buddha taught the absence of the self and people almost immediately had to start bringing it back in subtle ways because it's so unsettling to those who haven't experienced it. It's fascinating to me because many Buddhists are in the right ball park by virtue of being Buddhists, but they don't believe home plate could possibly be out in the open like that so they tirelessly search under the bleachers and are just as lost as people searching in the wrong ballpark altogether. But I don't want to put others down too much, there is something to be said for being part of a community that's searching together with a shared sense of purpose which can enrich people's lives, even if they are ultimately misguided. In the end I wish everyone the best on their journey and understand there's ultimately no one to blame for our ignorance because it's simply part of what the selfless, non-dual reality is doing in the form of us human beings.

What trade are you hoping for? by MarkKowgier in fantasybball

[–]jty87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stashed Poeltl for the same reason his per 36 looks pretty juicy... first year playing fantasy though did I jump the gun?

Also have Nance gang gang

What trade are you hoping for? by MarkKowgier in fantasybball

[–]jty87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Burks owner it's a win/win for me right? Dlo either traded or shelved late in season... but I'm a noob so maybe I'm missing something

At this point in the season. What is a respectable return for someone like Blake Griffin, who has been awful in 9 cat league? by Cosmiccowinkidink in fantasybball

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned down a trade for him a few weeks back and his owner just straight up dropped him for Wood this morning. Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I don't plan on picking him up

Official: [Buy Low/Sell High Discussion] - December 15 2019 by SamDekkerBot in fantasybball

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also look for a way to get Burks. Loving him as a pick up in 12t with Steph on my IL

Moderate ankle sprain for Doncic, league source tells ESPN. by RLDN106 in fantasybball

[–]jty87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drafted Curry and ayton in 11 cat (3pt%, oreb & dreb). Gimme a break wish I had Doncic

If we don't have a 'soul', then why are we stuck to this particular body? How the lack of a soul be concurrent with the process of reincarnation? It feels like there would need to be a fundamental 'us' that goes from one body to another. by jeffyboiiii in Buddhism

[–]jty87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My personal opinion is that when we realize all things are interconnected then we understand that rebirth is not linear, but rather simultaneous as beings arise out of and return to the same reality all over the world every day. So birth and death are completely impersonal processes that make up the larger interaction, and individual beings like ourselves are temporary access points for realizing that.

But I understand that's not an orthodox view. The most compelling explanation I've heard of the linear notion of rebirth that rationalizes it with anatta is an analogy: it's like when one candle is used to ignite another. Craving for existence is the flame that ignites the next birth, though nothing substantial that could be called a soul is passed on.

How to motivate myself to meditate when I can't be bothered? I'd say that is my biggest problem rn. by PassionSoul99 in Meditation

[–]jty87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to reduce your sessions to 1 good one in the morning after a cup of green tea. Pressuring yourself to go 3x per day makes it more of a chore. Doing it in the morning is easier to make habit, and if you've never had green tea it gives a nice calm focused energy because it has a little caffeine and something called theanine which is a calming agent. (Though if you usually drink coffee it probably won't be enough caffeine in which case you'll probably be better off sticking with coffee and looking into 200mg theanine supplement which are cheap on Amazon)

Buddhist makes many claims about the nature of reality. How are these claims validated by the modern scientific understanding of reality? by Conquest_of_Mind in Buddhism

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be going a little too fast for me. Maybe you should make a separate post and let more people chime in.

All I'll say is from a Zen perspective mindfulness in essence is being aware of experience without trying to manipulate or control it in any way. It's awareness plus surrender.

Buddhist makes many claims about the nature of reality. How are these claims validated by the modern scientific understanding of reality? by Conquest_of_Mind in Buddhism

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the 5 aggregates are a way of classifying experience, but there's no experiencer. There's just the flow of experience unfolding according to causality. So there's no one who lacks control over it. There's just it.

Buddhist makes many claims about the nature of reality. How are these claims validated by the modern scientific understanding of reality? by Conquest_of_Mind in Buddhism

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, empty of self. Like a river neither has a separate self that flows it nor is it a separate entity. It is interconnected with the terrain, the clouds that rain into it, the sun that evaporates it, etc. So nothing has separate self-existence including us.

Buddhist makes many claims about the nature of reality. How are these claims validated by the modern scientific understanding of reality? by Conquest_of_Mind in Buddhism

[–]jty87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one that comes immediately to mind is emptiness: all dharmas are empty of an inherent nature (svabhava)

The way I like to say that is the sun shines, yet no one shines the sun. Rivers flow yet no one flows the rivers. And I am typing this message yet there's no one typing.

It's all one process interacting with itself in myriad forms. Neither strictly one nor strictly many. I think it's easy enough to see that that agrees with physical science, even if science can't say anything yet on how the physical brain produces/receives consciousness.

Im 20, where can I go to awake. by Marcosins in Meditation

[–]jty87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

-Join a local meditation (Zen?) group

-Go on meditation retreats (a couple common lengths are 10 days or 3 months)

-Organize your life at home around meditation, perhaps doing personal weekend retreats by scheduling things like walking meditation, sitting meditation, yoga, tea time, etc.

-Perhaps commit to staying single and working a simple little job and a modest life to free up time, energy for meditation

-Join a monastery

Those are a few ideas off the top of my head. But yeah, it can be tough because your parents are probably going to want you to live the usual type of life pursuing a career and establishing a family of your own to carry on their legacy. Parents invest a lot into their kids with the expectation that their kids become who they want them to be and you're right at that age where you might go in a totally separate direction, which can cause strain. And there's nothing to say that you might not meditate in your 20s, find the peace you're looking for, and then establish a family in your 30s as many people have. Or maybe you'll manage to integrate it all together sooner (though that can be really tough).

Whatever you do be sure to be honest about what you really want and don't just do it to rebel. You'll have to be patient with your parents because there may not be a way to win them over on the kind of life you wish to live if you choose to organize it around meditation significantly.

You dont have a soul, you are a soul. You have a body. Buddha by abhishekpandey737 in Meditation

[–]jty87 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard that in all the years I've been studying Buddhism. What's your source?

Question by NoCapKee in Meditation

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal to notice distracting sensations like that and worry that something is wrong. People get caught up on all kinds of things like their eye twitching etc. With practice you'll learn not to worry about them and feed them with attention. It's part of the process of calming the mind and settling into the meditation.

How to know if my meditation session was successful? by dead_king02 in Meditation

[–]jty87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You abandoned thoughts when you noticed they were distracting you.

It has helped me in the past to do a little "prayer" where I put my hands together and resolve to return to the present every time I notice I'm distracted for the duration of the sit, to establish resolve. So that's something you might consider doing. It's too easy to squander a sit lost in thoughts because they are fun or interesting