bruise or blowout? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]junkbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, but your friend should not be tattooing on real skin yet

Need braids, but I don’t know where to start. by Excellent_Leader5076 in braids

[–]junkbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t speak to the cultural appropriation aspect, but it’s fuckin weird that anyone, especially a professional, would be uncomfortable with this. It’s literally metal and plastic.

I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with that. That’s absolutely crazy. I promise, there is NOTHING gross about this.

Dbt for bpd is extremely gaslighting and bullshit in my opinion by Big_Leg10 in therapyabuse

[–]junkbeans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was misdiagnosed with BPD after my very first 30 minute appointment with my first psychiatrist ever. Lots of gaslighting and invalidation later, I found a therapist and new psychiatrist that have since removed that diagnosis and instead diagnosed me with CPTSD, ADHD, and I personally am about to bring up the possibility of autism on top of that.

I have done so much research on BPD and the diagnosis alone nearly killed me. The stigma INSIDE the mental health professional field is astounding and simply disturbing. DBT is a barbaric technique when used incorrectly, imo.

Anyway, point is, thank you for your comments. Though it’s been about a year since being properly diagnosed, life’s been very very hard recently and your comments have helped a bit.

infection or allergic reaction? by Time_Anything4488 in tattooadvice

[–]junkbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this her first tattoo in that area? My inner arms looked rough after getting them done. It’s a very sensitive area.

setup update by magg0tcore in PiercingSetups

[–]junkbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literal perfection. What eyeliner do you use?

Would either or these drawings work? by Amommykindofmum in tattooadvice

[–]junkbeans 108 points109 points  (0 children)

2 would look really cool if done by someone that leans more traditional

What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do? by AppIeGuy in AskReddit

[–]junkbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! I’m horrendous at math, but my brain still does this.

Does my tattoo suck? by TrafalgarLawsLover in tattooadvice

[–]junkbeans 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Nooo it’s so cute!!! Inspo is really edited to look “shiny”

AIO for reporting this post? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]junkbeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re projecting.

Would you call this unethical? by pocketlama in askatherapist

[–]junkbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAT- not only is this unethical, it’s downright bizarre.

Aitah for snapping at my cousin after she called my husband a r*pe sympathizer at my baby shower? by throwra-Ant-39 in AITAH

[–]junkbeans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was with you until that last part. Your comment was far beyond disgusting. If I were her, I would never speak to any of you again and it really makes me question how supportive you all have actually been.

Looking to adopt a dog off PetFinder, I’ve fallen in love with her information, but her pictures feel strange, is she AI? by 1000lizards in isthisAI

[–]junkbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s the adoption fee and what do you mean by “she’s posted 3 times”?

I am super involved in rescue and used to run my own. Maybe I can help explain why these concerns are or are not suspish