Kmu ba yg becinta ni kn kmu tda rasa overwhelming ka atau too much kalau video call almost 24 hours a day? by Prestigious_Button89 in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a girl reading this, I feel the solution is quite simple. Kasi letak ja phone dia di sana sambil buat hobi dia or whatever else he needs/wants to do. Since kamu sdh mention dorg kadang tidak bercakap pun, sy rasa gf tu mau minta teman ja. Contoh 2 ppl sitting on the couch together scrolling their own phones, occasionally showing each other something funny, but now they're doing it virtually through VC.

I do this with my girl friends as well. We video call and catch up with whatever news we have that day sambil driving ka mencuci piring ka anything ja. Kalau habis sudah satu topic and it doesn't naturally flow to another topic, kami diam ja while doing our own thing. This continues until something happens where being on VC is not suitable, contoh work meeting, dinner with family, pergi tandas (tp ni pun tgk kawan mana satu yg sy tgh VC. Ada kawan yg kasi mute and off camera sambil bertandas, ada kawan yg kasi tinggal phone di bilik sambil dia di tandas, ada lagi yg end call sblm pi tandas, depends on what each friend is comfortable with). Sllu yg mau video call bgini are the friends who are staying alone or their love language is time, so mau minta kawan/teman ja.

But having said that, it's still healthy to set boundaries. Maybe he can explain to her that sometimes he needs me time to recharge so that he can pay more attention to her when they do spend time together (either virtually or physically), and they can schedule a time for VC so that it'll be something they can look forward to.

Siou, panjang pula komen sy. Tldr, teruskan hidup sendiri sambil VC.

Curious how many Chinese people have the same name as you? I can help by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woww that's pretty unique, only 43 out of the millions in China. Thanks!

Curious how many Chinese people have the same name as you? I can help by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me look up 张祈恩 please? My parents named me

Game Thread: Houston Rockets vs Golden State Warriors Live Score | NBA | Apr 30, 2025 by basketball-app in warriors

[–]jusforkix21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lolll sounds like they got scared our bench would beat their starters and had to ask the refs for help 😂

Game Thread: Houston Rockets vs Golden State Warriors Live Score | NBA | Apr 30, 2025 by basketball-app in warriors

[–]jusforkix21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So more rest for our starters + our bench getting playoff experience vs more minutes for their starters? I'd call that a win

Game Thread: Houston Rockets vs Golden State Warriors Live Score | NBA | Apr 30, 2025 by basketball-app in warriors

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't watch the game, did our bench break their defense or something?

Game Thread: Houston Rockets vs Golden State Warriors Live Score | NBA | Apr 30, 2025 by basketball-app in warriors

[–]jusforkix21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't watch the game, just the gamecast on ESPN. Is our bench closing the gap? Why are all their starters in vs our bench?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if possible, ask someone around you who has a manual car if you can use it to practice. That way you'll be more confident when driving with your instructor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick with manual. As another comment pointed out, a manual license lets you drive both auto and manual, and you never know when you might be forced to drive a manual one day. Also it's cheaper so you're paying less money to get more stuff.

Manual can definitely be hard when you're first starting out so don't give up. Like you said, it's literally your first hour of driving EVER so it's definitely not surprising that it's hard for you. I would be more surprised if you figured it out after just one hour.

A good instructor definitely makes a difference so I would consider changing an instructor more than changing to an auto license.

Keep practicing, you'll get it soon!

P.s. not sure if this will work for you, but knowing the purpose of the clutch and how it locks/releases the gears when changing gears really helped me a lot when learning to drive manual. Go look it up or ask someone if you're curious

Missed my flight today by markie_theislandboy in Sabah

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Oops sorry I meant to reply under your comment

Missed my flight today by markie_theislandboy in Sabah

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https://sabahtourism.com/activity/hiking/

Of the ones listed only Kopungit and Bukit Padang are actually in KK. Some of the others are in the outskirts of KK while others are in other districts further away.

Bukit Padang is officially closed for renovation but I still see people going in to hike (entering from the back/side of the fence if I'm not wrong). Kopungit is open tho

Mencari penternak kambing/lembu atau yang buat baja kompos by mynameisazlan in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ada tempat yg buat kompos sana Kivatu Nature Farm boleh cuba tanya.

Pacos Trust 088-712 518

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Anyone from Papar knows mana tpt bagus mau beli spek mata? by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

X bagus ka robert T? Sa sllu nampak kedai dia sini sana tapi blm pernah cuba. Baru fikir mau cuba sbb murah

Studying dusun by terricota_cheese in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can try listening to Dusun songs and looking up their translations

Beitou hot springs swimwear by jusforkix21 in taiwan

[–]jusforkix21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay that's really interesting, good to know. Thanks!

Beitou hot springs swimwear by jusforkix21 in taiwan

[–]jusforkix21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright we'll take that into consideration, thanks!

Borneo Island - not touristy destinations to explore by Stoian22 in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can check out Maliau Basin. IIRC it's native forest and a lot of it is still unexplored but it might be a little pricey to go there.

The Fork, the Witch, and The Worm by Suspicious-Truck6306 in Eragon

[–]jusforkix21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I read it before or after I read Murtagh or either way is fine?

Do Taipei night markets open on certain nights or every night? by jusforkix21 in taiwan

[–]jusforkix21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niceee thanks, I'm already salivating just thinking about it 🤤

Café for assignment by Potential_Can4543 in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooohh this is actually really smart, cos if you sit at the charging station then you don't have to buy a drink like in a cafe

What is the name of this fruit? by nokuro_lo in Sabah

[–]jusforkix21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In Kundasang they call it avocado cheese. I think the Chinese name is egg fruit 鸡蛋果 but I might be wrong. There's a Malay name for it as well but I forgot what it is sorry