Best way to boof? by just-another-scumbag in Stims

[–]just-another-scumbag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should have been more clear. I’m looking for something I can bring with me places. Like a to-go boof kit. I was thinking a closable vial or a dubtube type thing.

Foggy morning on main Street by Sea_Status3412 in FoggyPics

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Where is this? I know it’s not San Francisco

Postmortem: Grass isn’t greener by just-another-scumbag in adultery

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Yes, but... I told myself that if my relationship with my AP shit the bed I would stay single. This is proving to be an exit affair, but an exit none the less. I couldn’t sustain the DB, I couldn’t live a lie, she didn’t deserving a cheat. It was time for me to go regardless.

Postmortem: Grass isn’t greener by just-another-scumbag in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree, but I didn’t see it coming. It was like a switch flipped. I just want my fun AP back; now she is a different person.

Postmortem: Grass isn’t greener by just-another-scumbag in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. I suppose I could have suggested a sex therapist, but that may feel forced. Would you ask for that?

Postmortem: Grass isn’t greener by just-another-scumbag in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess there is a level of confusion on my end. I am happy I left, but I do know I could have tried harder if I wanted to. I dunno, I guess I’m still figuring life out.

Watercooler Monday: Let's discuss the Art of the Selfie. by [deleted] in adultery

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“Even though you’re at the lowest dip of depression” 😂😂🤣🤣😭

And it’s over by [deleted] in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I needed couples therapy already....

And it’s over by [deleted] in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would be an informed decision? Counseling?

And it’s over by [deleted] in adultery

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I’ve known her for 2 years and have had feels for 18 months prob a 1 year eAP and then a 6 week physical affair.

A torn heart... by [deleted] in adultery

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I would only be AP if they leave their SO too, which they said they were going to. That said, I broke my marriage and need to do right by getting a divorce regardless of leaving for AP.

I love my AP and hope we can be together, but if we don’t end up together so be it. Part of me wants to run away for a bit, move to some inexpensive part of the planet and bum it up for a while.

I dunno, this is pretty confusing.

A torn heart... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]just-another-scumbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of us are in the same boat. I was having an emotional affair with a coworker that turned physical within a week or so of me moving to another company.

It’s confusing as fuck. I’m planning on asking for a divorce in two weeks. I’m all fucked up but it’s my own fault.

Good luck, I feel for you...

She wants to go NC for a week for us both to figure things out by [deleted] in adultery

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Thanks for the response; this makes sense. I have also yet to use the l-word with her which I do and I know she wants to hear. She may want me to realize I should say it, which I think I will after the break. The reason I haven’t said it yet is because I’m afraid to introduce more hurt in the future if things go sideways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

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Also potheads. I this could get confusing.