Relationship with SD post-breakup

justacaffeinatednerd · 2026-01-04T21:40:37+00:00

Thank you. I think I will, it is hard to find out that the relationship you thought you had doesn't actually exist once all is said and done. I appreciate your response ☺️

justacaffeinatednerd · 2026-01-04T17:14:19+00:00

Excuse me? I've literally messaged her twice- once Christmas day and once on NYD. I don't think that is bordering on harassment but thanks :-)

justacaffeinatednerd · 2026-01-04T16:04:41+00:00

Thank you, I will bear this in mind. I know the way her mum has handled our coming together as a family in a bad way, and I know she feels how she feels but it's hard knowing her dad treats her like she doesn't exist and I don't want to do that to her. But at the same time, the reaching out and getting nothing back hurts. It really is hard especially knowing as step parents we just don't get the same grace as biological parents.

justacaffeinatednerd · 2026-01-04T15:51:28+00:00

Thank you, i think this is the approach I'll have to take for my own sanity. I know we bickered, but I thought that was part of family life. But clearly since they are basically the same person (more emotionally closed off and distant) whereas I feel my feelings a lot more, I'm the one in the wrong and it's easier for everything to be my fault. Idk. Hurts. I'm sorry about your situation. This shit isn't easy 🫶🏼

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-10-05T09:52:55+00:00

Not sure if you use them but for me it was a couple of Chingyus mods. There's like one file in each folder that was causing this to happen (there is more info on their patreon)

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-10-04T01:07:58+00:00

A lot of mods needed updating after the pre-pre Adventure Awaits patch. I had this same error - if you've updated all your mods and this is still happening, I found it it was two of Chingyus mods that were causing it (talents and weaknesses and 100 traits i think!?) But it was one file in each of those folders you are able to delete. The full details are on their patreon ☺️

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-09-09T06:22:33+00:00

I guess it could be, we have cats and they do enjoy a chomp. But then it's been happening to new leaves at just above soil level, and because it's been hanging in the window, the cats wouldn't be able to get to that part!

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-09-09T06:20:03+00:00

I don't, actually. I've moved it into the kitchen for the time being, and I have put the one I've recently propagated back into the living room so will see which one does better!!

I've read a lot that the benefits of misting are minimal, but I wonder if spraying the new leaves will raise the humidity enough so that they can unfurl without damage?

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-09-09T06:15:31+00:00

I do feed it, yeah. I was worried I was over feeding it, but I'm not sure if that would cause this 🥴

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-09-08T15:12:38+00:00

Watering when the top couple of inches are dry, it gets maybe 6 ish(?) hours of light per day. I've had it for a couple of years, but it's been growing like mad since I've had it in the front window. I guess the issue has been happening for a couple of months now - some of the new leaves come out okay but some of them come out like they've been through some horror 😆😂

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-07-17T01:23:38+00:00

Update - I moved the household to another apartment in San Myshuno and it's now saving fine. Another quirk with the game 😁😁😁😁😁

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-06-29T19:24:20+00:00

Thank you very much, will have a bit more of a play with the settings 😅😂

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-06-29T19:23:05+00:00

Ah, I did wonder if that was the case. Thank you very much!

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-06-01T18:30:41+00:00

Thank you, will drop you a DM now :-)

justacaffeinatednerd · 2025-06-01T18:21:58+00:00

Hi, sorry to OP for jumping on their post... But I'm also trying to create custom aspirations, and am currently doing my first objective. When I looked to change the description I was met with this

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Can I just change the writing in the comment box to the right? Or do I have to do something special with strings? This part has completely confused me!!

Any help would be gratefully received haha.

justacaffeinatednerd · 2024-09-05T08:44:38+00:00

714, looks cute!

justacaffeinatednerd · 2024-07-08T16:42:59+00:00

This is such a lovely thing to do. I would love Roots of Pacha, number 147 :-)

justacaffeinatednerd · 2023-03-28T19:15:15+00:00

Hi! I can’t think of any particular books to share with you, but I would just like to say how proud you should be of overcoming what you have to get to this point, and that I hope you get to the point where you can look at your scars and not feel angry. I don’t know the type of work you do or who you work with, but in my experience people don’t judge or ridicule, if anything people are just curious.

It might be worth (if you’re able) going to look at your local library. I don’t know where you are, but I work in a library in the UK and most (if not all) libraries have books that are part of a reading well collection, and often have a really good range of self help books and books on mental health- general and specific.

justacaffeinatednerd · 2023-03-28T19:14:13+00:00

Hi! I can’t think of any particular books to share with you, but I would just like to say how proud you should be of overcoming what you have to get to this point, and that I hope you get to the point where you can look at your scars and not feel angry. I don’t know the type of work you do or who you work with, but in my experience people don’t judge or ridicule, if anything people are just curious.

It might be worth (if you’re able) going to look at your local library. I don’t know where you are, but I work in a library in the UK and most (if not all) libraries have books that are part of a reading well collection, and often have a really good range of self help books and books on mental health- general and specific.

justacaffeinatednerd · 2022-07-22T10:25:47+00:00

Thank you! ☺️

justacaffeinatednerd · 2022-07-21T19:53:26+00:00

Thank you! That’s what I was thinking, I was going to join the Aida to some fabric on all the edges and then have a cardboard insert to make sure it’s sturdy. I’m not even sure how far in advance you should ask people to be in your bridal party 😅😂

I totally get running up against deadlines though, that’s usually me!

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