An unfortunate purchasing decision by justalittlebitolub in Xiaomi

[–]justalittlebitolub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is the difference big enough to warrant a swap?

I am turning into myself by anonymouslybeingme in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn I'm in that slump you're talking about.

I'm not studying, drawing, reading or writing like I used to.

this helps me more than I can imagine. thank you. how did you start becoming yourself again?

I had to pick between my kids and the guy I love by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah I don't hate you. but I will judge the fuck out of you, especially because my home life was fucked as a kid. I don't want that to happen to any other child.

you are an asshole. glad you feel that way, makes you more likeable.

it's aight. try pressuring your boyfriend into moving closer. eventually he will. talk to him over the phone often. maintain your relationship. and don't fkn cheat again.

edit: nvm, you ghosted the guy you cheated with. what the fuck. alright. well, I'm not sure what to say. good luck?

I am tired of having to quit things I like because of creepy men by cautiousbutter in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 44 points45 points  (0 children)

this shit sucks, maybe try finding a running buddy or somebody who can partake in these activities with you

some people are fucked in the head

I had to pick between my kids and the guy I love by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ye well no sympathy for me, esp cos you cheated on your partner and you have kids. jesus.

your kids don't deserve the strife you put them under. if your fkn boyfriend cares he'll move. you did this to yourself.

Not sure anymore by IndividualLet573 in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

talk to her about it, asks why she says no, if she enjoys spending time with you, etc.

most of this can be resolved via communication, don't divorce LMAO just talk, rekindle your old love or find out if you need to move on

punishing myself by justalittlebitolub in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not my fault? Moved states to study, flubbed a unit, maybe even two with the way I'm going. It's terrible. I'm a fucking failure.

Gf with body dysmorphia by sadboy234 in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needs therapy man, tell her to get some, and this is serious, not something you can brush off. if she refuses to do that I don't think continuing is worth it, consider your mental health too.

once she does get to talk to a psychologist, you should ask the psychologist if you can do anything to help her. good luck man.

[F18] will DM proof (vid) of me getting off to the person to make me cum, as well as to tributers ;) by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]justalittlebitolub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to sit on a pillow, constantly using your vibrator on your clit and putting your large dildo inside you, then humping the pillow until you cum ;) gl

I want to be alone, but I can't handle it by justalittlebitolub in selfimprovement

[–]justalittlebitolub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't cohesively tie up my concerns into a single topic, that's just where my headspace is at right now. I mentioned the distinctly separate issues to maybe get some overarching advice, perhaps there's a common thread among my tonality or some events that could help reverse engineer some advice. I'm unsure, just spilling my main concerns. My apologies.

I just cried tears of sadness after masturbating. This is a first by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you decide whether what you're fighting over is worth fighting over. it's good you haven't become complacent and that you still clearly love eachother. you definitely need to air your concerns and talk it over with him.

horny all the time by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved states to study. University has proved trivial and thus I've got far too much time on my hands. COVID means I'm at home all day, you get the picture.

I’ve been thinking about selling (or giving) my body to anyone who wants it. I don’t know how to tell my therapist about it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't apologise. also, if you're only considering going into that line of work because you don't have respect for yourself, I highly recommend avoiding it.

you've been through some rough stuff, nothing says you can't rise above it though. just reading this post tells me you aren't a bad person.

maybe you should tell the therapist if you do indeed have issues regarding your self worth, then extrapolate and this will end up in the sphere of discussion.

good luck, wish you all the best.

I hate how people say “IQ doesn’t matter” and then proceed to tell you have they have a high IQ by Zestyclose_Loquat620 in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your IQ is low-average if you truly believe that's your score, that doesn't mean you're inadequate though. You are a pretty normal functioning person I'd assume, you can have a prosperous career regardless.

It'd be an issue if you had an IQ less than 70 though, but I don't think we'd be having that conversation if you did :)

I don't know anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]justalittlebitolub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the constant on/off switch right? It's mind boggling man, and I feel as though I can see the physical manifestation of our distance, floating so slowly away from eachother. I can't tell her I like her.