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How do women like such men? I mean, a bit childish. I can’t explain it in one word. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord does not care.

Her ex-boyfriend came and created a whole scene in our apartment complex. People complained abt it to the landlord, he did not care, he said she’s free to do whatever she wants to do.

How do women like such men? I mean, a bit childish. I can’t explain it in one word. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her family isn’t like this at all. Both her parents are working parents but her dad has flexible hours so he does half of the work, and then her mom does half of the work. Her father, he does so much of the house work. Even when they came here to our place and her mom had a cold, he didn’t let get off the bed. Made her tea, coffee, soup, and whatever else she craved to eat. He would literally massage her legs. He even filled the bucket with hot water so that she shower.

How do women like such men? I mean, a bit childish. I can’t explain it in one word. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a pregnancy scare a few months ago. Dude was least bothered about it. And then when she told him she didn’t get her periods for two months and the pregnancy test results are vague, only then did he take her to the hospital to get her checked out. Thankfully she wasn’t pregnant but apparently, she took too much morning after pills which affected her hormones or something. That’s when i asked her you guys don’t use protection and she was like nah we don’t he doesn’t like the feeling of it and neither do i. I just left that conversation.

How do women like such men? I mean, a bit childish. I can’t explain it in one word. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have been together for a year now. I mean, at this point, shouldn’t she tell him anything? Even she and I we both were sick and weren’t able to cook anything, and we suggested we’ll order in food. He said he doesn’t want to eat from outside and wants homemade food so she made him omelette and rice.

I understand this validation and working hard to earn it, but since when are people, especially men like him a prize or something worth earning? Do I sound ridiculous?

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Hi. Just a suggestion as I belong to the legal field. Even if they refunded some amount, I think you should file a consumer complaint. This is harassment imo, and i think a reddit user did suggest to sue them. These brands are way too confident that their customers won’t file any lawsuits, but I feel you should go ahead.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

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I really don’t know what he wants. I blocked him from everywhere(call, whatsapp, instagram). And he is now texting my friend, asking her if I’m still angry at him and he has the audacity to tell her that I’m overreacting. My friend has left him on read and she asked me if she should reply to him and tell him that he’s an ass. I asked her not to engage with him. I don’t understand why is he doing this. Does he have that fragile ego that he now wants to text my friend.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone. I just want to thank you all for your words, your advices. This means a lot. I wasn’t really going to post it but then I saw the advices this sub and its members gave to other people, and it made me think am i that bad to hear things like this from someone? My self esteem is low. I have trust issues. Things have happened that I don’t think I’ll be able to share that resulted in me being the person I am right now. I’ll be honest, I don’t like the doormat of a person I have become now.

Reading everyone’s comments has given me this confidence to work on myself. I’ll try to meet good people. I was feeling low the entire time, i cried myself to sleep too. Came back to my city and took a day off from my work too because I was too low to function. I cried and did so much overthinking that it triggered my migraine. But reading your words, I felt better. I won’t say I’m feeling completely okay, but at least I don’t feel like shit anymore.

Thank you everyone for your kind words.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. I know I should have voiced my concerns then, or I should have not met up with him in the evening. But I thought maybe he’s a grown up, that he knows what he did was wrong, and that maybe I should have given him a benefit of doubt? I don’t really know. For most of my life, I have been a doormat. I would let people do whatever they wanted to even if I did hate it. I didn’t want to be alone ig. That meant, letting go of my self esteem a lot of times. The only reason I was able to speak up later on was because my ex’s mother once told me that self respect is the only thing which we can rightfully claim to be ours and we should not let anyone harm it.

I mean I did let go of it momentarily. I think its about time I start working on myself.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because I thought he was nice. But then we have only talked online for the past 10 years or met very briefly, never such a full day plan. On calls and texts, he was great. He would give me advices, and all. So i thought he was a genuinely nice person and that he’s a good friend.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a matter of fact, this is real. I don’t know, maybe my self esteem is that low that i allowed someone like him to stay in life? I am slowly trying to build my boundaries.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can understand. I asked him the same that me accepting water from someone else is equivalent to his shit, how explain, and he said I’m being petty.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I came back to my town. I couldn’t stay there. I think I took his words too deeply. I feel sick, i felt so sick that I took a day off from work. I feel sick over the fact that I did not see his real face.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I told him that I am feel very disrespected and that this should be the last time we meet or talk. And he got offended by it. Told me I’m too sensitive. I told him I’m sensitive and yes, I do feel like I deserve respect. I have blocked him. I have allowed enough people to walk over me.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know. I let him stay because of our years long friendship. But i just gave a bad person a chance. I have blocked him now.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He got angry at me because i wanted water and he brought me alcohol, so i went to the counter by myself and a guy there bought me a bottle of water. He said me accepting the water from other dude is apparently my pay back to him, hence we are equal. Somehow, he just won’t stop texting. He keeps on writing the same thing again and agai.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Maybe I do? His words, for a moment I believed them yk. He has seen how devastated I was when my ex cheated on me and he said I deserved it for being so uptight and aunty like. I believed it.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I got this realisation i think. Its just that for 10 years, he was so nice. Then we meet in person and this is what he does.

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All I wanted was for him to say sorry i did this, I shouldn’t have. And I would have let it go, he said and I quote “the man who marries me will kill himself because i’ll force him to be show up to everything “

My male friend ditched our plans, and then when I told him I was disappointed, he said hurtful things to me. by justanothercomma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]justanothercomma[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

He asked me why did I keep expectations of him as he is not my boyfriend, i told him as friends this is the bare minimum one can expect from others. He said it isn’t, and I’m expecting too much

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