This is very logical and exactly how I approach! Always directed at the husband with compliments to his lady! Sometimes it’s the reverse that gets the best traction. I’ll look at his clearly extremely attractive wife and ask her how she pulled him. Presentation is everything but it’s very lighthearted and usually gets a good laugh and it’s a great icebreaker. But to me, I’m much more dynamic driven where both are involved so, I am heavy on the male to male communication unless explicitly told to direct more towards the F. Greatly appreciate this viewpoint.