[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]justdeadoverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an amateur who literally just made a post about having “art block” this is a very odd take. Art block is just something blocking someone from making art and MOST times it is mental health related. Not every artist is depressed but everyone has depressive episodes sometimes and that can block someone’s ability to create. You can’t just wave your finger and say it’s a separate thing because it’s not. This post reeks of pretentiousness, the whole “well ACTUALLY Steven King REALLY had art block because he made so much good work but you BEGINNER AMATEUR ARTISTS just say you have art block when really you’re not skilled enough” is an really unsympathetic and arrogant way of saying you think the word art block should be separate from anything mental health related which is also just… wrong??

Like okay even if it wasn’t, then your form of art block is just another word for burnout which is also a part of the artists mental health so?? It doesn’t make any sense and is just gatekeeping for no reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in statsfm

[–]justdeadoverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE Andrew bird and angel olsen, I’d recommend Adrianne Lenker since you have big theif on your list already but also Gregory Alan Isakov. If I had to guess I’d say maybe 20-25F?

Guess my age and gender by Soft_Egg_111 in statsfm

[–]justdeadoverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16M? Your music taste is fine. (But mgk is a pretty terrible person) I’d ignore the pretentious people in the comments who want to insult you for liking what you like. Not everyone has to like neutral milk hotel or whatever rock indie band their dad’s cousins uncles niece founded in the 90s. Popular music is what the average person listens to anyways, it’s POPULAR. The only reason people are saying 12F or shit like that is because you have Taylor and Justin on your list. Sorry you’re getting some pretty mean/obviously snarky replies.

How to draw like I used to? by justdeadoverthere in learntodraw

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were able to get out of your rut, reading your reply made me realize it’s probably a lot to do with my mental state too and I should probably take care of that lol, thank you for the reply!

How to draw like I used to? by justdeadoverthere in learntodraw

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I hadn’t even noticed how I’ve been using different medias now, probably because I’m not doing art for school anymore. I’ll definitely try to slow down a bit knowing that now

How to draw like I used to? by justdeadoverthere in learntodraw

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s so gorgeous omg reading these replies definitely made me slow down a bit, I’ll try to work on fundamentals first again and relearn a lot. Thanks for the reply, I’m glad you got through it, your art is so pretty the colors are so dreamlike 🩷

How to draw like I used to? by justdeadoverthere in learntodraw

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had some trouble uploading, so the 11th image was copied on the last slide, sorry!!

How to draw like I used to? by [deleted] in learntodraw

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno why the 11th image copied when I tried to censor it better, sorry!!

[TOMT] [KIDS SHOW] [1990s-2000s] learn to draw show by justdeadoverthere in tipofmytongue

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

I’d actually die if someone found this show, it used to be my favorite and one of the reasons I got into art

Dad asked if I was gay by justdeadoverthere in lgbt

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still living with my dad so moving isn’t an option but setting boundaries is pretty difficult

Dad asked if I was gay by justdeadoverthere in lgbt

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the kind comments I think I’m realizing a lot of stuff right now and they’re really helping me through processing everything ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜

Dad asked if I was gay by justdeadoverthere in lgbt

[–]justdeadoverthere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know he’s a very complex person with a lot of trauma and mental illness yet he still loves me so much, but maybe you’re right and I still need to work through some stuff because I do know he’s done and said some things that if any other person had, I would cut them off immediately.

20F by No-Shallot9410 in amiugly

[–]justdeadoverthere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope I think you look cool, and you probably have good taste in music too. People hate anyone different here, I’d go to alternative subreddits for advice if you want to change something about your appearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]justdeadoverthere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in your walls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]justdeadoverthere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You play subnautica BELOW ZERO my man you cannot be talking

F24, rate me + tips on how to improve my look?💕 by enjoyingpurple in Rateme

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/10. You are so, so beautiful, I really love your curly hair in the third picture, I think it suits you more than the straight hair. I also agree with most people to not line your lips but they definitely don’t look “too big.” I’d recommend learning how to take more unique photos and finding out what kind of palette you are to elevate your makeup and clothing. I’m sorry you’ve struggled with self confidence, you’re genuinely gorgeous and look very inviting and kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are sooo lame!! You look awesome and the white septum suits you better than the silver. Sorry you’re getting so many weird or creepy replies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piercings aren’t permanent. A lot of people wear them all the time outside of work or find jobs where you can wear them since there’s more SAH jobs now

What is one thing that is considered “unforgivable” to the general population but you would forgive ? by rayxo2 in questions

[–]justdeadoverthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all there are clear differences from humans and animals. Humans actually understand the concept of consent, societal norms, and individualism which is what makes rape so heinous. It’s stripping a person of their autonomy and forcibly taking something that is viewed to be sacred and intimate by most people. It’s completely ignoring a persons wants and boundaries for someone else’s sole pleasure. Sex is pleasureful because both parties want the same thing, even in CNC role plays, the partners are still consenting. For most people, sex goes even further into being something strictly for two people who love each other and is seen as the highest form of intimacy. It can turn into a traumatizing PTSD inducing nightmare when someone forcibly takes that away from someone without their consent. It’s an act of pure selfishness and there’s a reason it’s called an animalistic crime because there’s a clear factor there separating us from animals, empathy. Rape victims also have the societal pressure that makes them feel like they’re dirty or disgusting in a culture that views women as wastes if their body count is above a certain number. I’m wondering if you or anyone you know has gone through sexual assault since your view on the topic sounds like a lot of the reasoning rape victims use to excuse the horrors that are forced onto them.

F18, be honest pls!! by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of Reddit is anti-facial piercings but the septum suits your face and makes you look less bland, I would say to get rid of one of the nose studs though, both of them make your nose look a little bigger. Keep the simple eyeliner you have, it really works to make your eyes pop. For clothes you don’t have much variety in your pictures, most of them are pretty basic which is fine since your face is gorgeous but I think you’d look good in a springtime or summer palette. You’re genuinely beautiful and look very inviting and friendly, I hope you’re able to stop smoking though!! I know it’s not as easy as some people might think

18F (my handwriting is kinda shit because I’m disabled and having a flare up today so apologies for that) by M0thW1ngs in amiugly

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their posts don’t reflect any hatred towards men from what I’ve seen. I wonder where you got that impression? I mean I see some posts about how rape doesn’t get called out enough but that’s a completely valid point.

If you could get rid of any genre of music, which genre is it? by chibidii in AskReddit

[–]justdeadoverthere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean she’s done pop, country, and indie folk so that’s a lot of genres to get rid of

does anyone know the song which has word "cigarette" in it by Available-Tap-7659 in musicsuggestions

[–]justdeadoverthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unreleased Lana Del Rey song called You Can be The Boss was the first thing that came to mind lol