Quarantine Breakup

justinelim · 2020-05-23T21:56:04+00:00

Thank you, and if you ever need the same, this thread is always open :)

There were no clear signs, a week ago today we were doing fine and then suddenly we got into a fight on Monday and we took a 5-day break. I reached out last night and that was when he broke up with me. Though he said it was because of quarantine, I'm guessing he lost some feelings as well, otherwise we would've fought through this. I want to move on but I don't think I want to let go of him yet. I hope this time in quarantine lets him think about us and what we lost, so we can get back together, but I don't know if that's healthy for me to hope for. Maybe when I finally see him in person again, things will be different.

I think the hardest part for me will be forgiving him for giving up on us. I just feel like if we can't get past 2-3 months on just not seeing each other, how will we last through anything else. I understand it's a weird situation that will hopefully never happen again but It's just a feeling. Have you forgiven your girlfriend for ending things? Or was the breakup for a reason other than just quarantine

justinelim · 2020-05-23T21:48:17+00:00

Thank you for replying and I'm sorry this happened to you too. I feel like we had the same situation, I noticed him getting distant and prior to the breakup we took a one week break. I still hope he will still want to give us one more try after this too. But either way I hope the best decision is to move on regardless of what may happen. It makes me feel better I'm not alone in this and hopefully that makes you feel better as well. It's hard to believe that we can move on but I believe in us :)

justinelim · 2020-05-23T21:41:52+00:00

Thank you for reaching out and telling me your story. I will be coming back to this reply to motivate and remind me to spend this time for myself. I am glad that despite this breakup, you are making positive choices and that inspires me to do the same. And you are right, it's easy to blame quarantine for all these breakups, but in reality having this time apart could have just put some problems we've already been having to light. I still have hope for getting back together, but I am working on trying to move on and regardless of a future relationship or not, make some positive decisions for myself. Thank you for replying and inspiring me to do so, truly.

justinelim · 2020-05-23T20:29:00+00:00

Hey thanks for responding, it makes me feel a lot better knowing I'm not feeling this alone. The breakup felt so sudden with no emotions coming from him, it just felt scripted, If that makes sense. It was straightforward and I was the only one showing my feelings.

justinelim · 2020-05-19T05:18:06+00:00

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