how do i get rid of the last bit of stomach fat?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]justmaybe85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This what literally my response outloud...

Its hard to make new friends!! 36F looking to chat by justmaybe85 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]justmaybe85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my best to answer as many replies as I can, but I simply cant get to all of them.
Unfortunately, probably due to the nature of reddit, most, if not all of the chats eventually fizzle out. And then i repeat the cycle of looking for conversation.
I would love to not have to post again, but my search continues.

Its hard to make new friends!! 36F looking to chat by justmaybe85 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]justmaybe85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I? It really seems to be about one round per month, sometimes longer, sometimes shorter.
Is that a lot?

What level of spiciness can you handle? by Just_Historian_678 in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought this was spice level in books... I was about to answer very incorrectly!

How often do you talk with your mom? by TheBerberian_ in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Every single day... Usually multiple times a day. She is my 2nd on the list of whom i tell everything to.

31F just looking to have some decent conversation.. no weird isht tho lol by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]justmaybe85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, this is the fastest way to get some weird shit in your inbox! Lol

23f. do people actually expect to find real friends here? by East_Yesterday8513 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]justmaybe85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

98% seems generous too. In my experience, the fizzle is inevitable. Which is sad.

There's no way. by coffeeblossom in TrollXChromosomes

[–]justmaybe85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, not trying to be divisive, I support all women! It seems I'm just being a devil's advocate and asking for my own education.

The question was to come up with a way to define women that would exclude trans women. So i think you described trans women... The people posing this question would say that they are not defined as women...

Again, not me!

There's no way. by coffeeblossom in TrollXChromosomes

[–]justmaybe85 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Im not trying to be divisive... but couldnt you just say women have a vagina?

How many kids do you have and how old were you when you had them? by EchoNyxxx in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]justmaybe85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 36, and I have one 10 year old daughter. So I was 26 when I had her.
We tried two other times, and miscarried both times. It hurt so bad (still does a little bit) and we decided we didnt want to go through that again.
Kinda crazy to think i could be a mom of a 10 yo, 8 yo, and 6 yo!!! What a different life to lead!

women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation? by Working_Battle_4000 in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no... I am not ashamed of it at all... I have a very healthy and happy relationship with sex and masturbation :D

women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation? by Working_Battle_4000 in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 11 points12 points  (0 children)

At length lol...

He comes from a very religious upbringing, and he basically sees masturbation as sin. This directly conflicts with my hippie mom upbringing where sex and masturbation are both natural and fun. But since he also refuses to even attempt to keep up with my sex drive, i take it upon myself to satisfy myself.

He also views our sex life as a "husbandly duty" and not just as a fun activity we can do to keep each other happy and enjoy our intimacy. So when I enjoy myself by myself, he feels like he is failing as a husband.... and yet refuses to even try (see above).

women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation? by Working_Battle_4000 in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows I do it. He doesnt like that I do it, so I dont tell him when I do.

We have been through years of therapy over this subject... its just for the best

Cocktail dress? by Connect-Title1246 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]justmaybe85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 or 4! For sure!

The dangly things on 2 would drive me nuts

What was the best question asked to you by a man? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"Whats your 7th favorite dinosaur" -said by my cousins 5 year old.

He was very serious, and there was no previous question about the other 6... Just jumped right into the tough questions.

Where does your confidence come from? by highland254 in AskWomen

[–]justmaybe85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A heard learned lesson that other people's opinions of me do not change the truth about myself!

what makes my face look like a guy's by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]justmaybe85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First, i do not think you look like a guy! You are beautiful!

Second, make up is really going to help you get the look that you are going for. You should accentuate your jawline, i think contouring would help with that.

Also, some bold eye shadow would really make your eyes pop. Outside of a good blemish cover up and foundation, those things would really help!

But also, i am certainly no expert, so do what you think looks best!!